Ummeli ngamunye wesigamu esihle sesintu uphupha ngokuthi ubuhlobo bakhe buqinile futhi buhlala isikhathi eside. Yingakho lapho umuntu ebonakala khona, efanelwe ukuba yingxenye yakhe yesibili, kukhona ukwesaba okungokwemvelo kokulahlekelwa nguye. Ngokuvamile, imicabango yalolu hlobo ingabangela amaphupho ahlukahlukene. Yingakho wonke owesifazane osemncane ekhathazeka futhi ecabanga ngalokho okuhlukana ngakho nokuthi yini engayilindela ngemuva kwephupho elinjalo?
Kungani bephupha ngokuhlukanisa ephusheni?
Uma ummeli wesigamu esihle sabantu ephupho lolu hlobo, lokhu kungase kungabi yisibonakaliso esibalulekile sesimo esibi esiseduze. Ukuhlukanisana nabangane kanye nozakwethu kuyisibonakaliso sokuthi kungekudala ungase usenkingeni. Uma ephusheni lakhe intombazane ihlukana nezitha, leli phupho lihunyushwa ukuthi izinguquko ezimnandi zilindele yena, hhayi kuphela othandweni, kodwa ngezenzo ngokujwayelekile. Khokha ngokukhethekile imihlangano lapho ungathola imali eyengeziwe, ngaphandle kwalokho ungaphuthelwa ithuba elizuzisa kakhulu. Uma wayenephupho owaphule nomfana, lifanekisela ukubunzima kokuzikhethela okumelwe kwenziwe esikhathini esizayo esiseduze. Ngokuvamile, iphupho lapho amaphupho okuhlukanisa khona, kusho ukuthi intombazane isuke ishathele nje ukukhathazeka kulesibili. Kudingeka isikhashana kancane ukuxazulula le nkinga. Naphezu kwesimo esibi kakhulu phakathi nephupho elinjalo, ungafaki masinyane emoyeni omubi. Kungcono ukukhumbula konke okwenzekayo futhi uzilungiselele ngendlela entsha, ngokufanayo izinguquko ezifanayo uzobe uboshwe empilweni. Uma uphupha ukuhlukanisa nomuntu okhaliphile, kusho ukuthi uzophumelela othandweni. Intombazane ekhala ngesikhathi sokuphumula iveza izinkinga.