Mhlawumbe, ngokobulili obuhle ngalunye, isiphakamiso sokushada singenye yezenzakalo ezibaluleke kakhulu ekuphileni. Kuhlala ukuze uthole ukuthi kungasho ukuthini uma kwenzeka ephusheni. Ukuze uthole incazelo, cabanga ngeminye imininingwane kanye nokucindezeleka ngokomzwelo. Kungaba kuhle ukuqhathanisa imibhalo etholakalayo nezenzakalo zokuphila kwangempela.
Kungani ukhumbula iphupho lokushada?
Iphupho lapho othandekayo enza khona, ubikezela izinguquko ezinkulu zokuphila. Owesifazane oshadile onjalo isilumiso sokuthi kufaneleka ukuba uqaphele futhi ungadonseli ukunakekelwa okungadingekile kuwe. Uma umuntu egxile emgqeni owodwa futhi ephethe indandatho - lokhu kuyimpawu yemizwa eqotho. Kubantu abangashadile, iphupho elinjalo lithembisa ukubukeka empilweni yomuntu ozothatha konke ukunakwa futhi anikeze imizwelo eminingi. Uma kubonakala sengathi isiphakamiso sokushada sithukuthele, ubuhlobo obukhona buzophela maduzane. Lapho isipho sithokozile - lesi isibonakaliso esihle, esibonisa ukuguquka okungalindelekile ekuphileni kwakho komuntu siqu.
Umbono ebusuku, lapho ukunikezwa kwesandla nenhliziyo kubangele ukudideka, kusho ukuthi emehlweni abanye ubonakala unengqondo futhi engathembeki. Iphupho lapho ukuphakanyiswa kokushada khona indoda engaziwa yamukelwa, ngoba intombazane encane iyinhlangano yokuhlangana nomuntu ofanelekayo. Noma kunjalo isakhiwo esinjalo singasho ukuthola isiphakamiso esihle esizosiza ekuthuthukiseni kakhulu isimo sezinto ezibonakalayo futhi sithole isimo esiphakeme emphakathini. Ukuze intombazane iphuphe imvume yokushada, kusho ukuthatha inhlonipho evela kwabanye.
Uma wenza isipho sesandla nenhliziyo, kufanele ulindele izinkinga ezincane ezingeke zikucasule, kodwa zikunikeze ngokwengeziwe ukuzethemba. Ukulala, lapho benza isipho sokushada, kodwa wayengumuntu ongathandeki, kubonisa ukuthi kukhona ukungabaza ngokwenza isinqumo esibalulekile. Ngaphambi kwesenzakalo esithile esibalulekile lelo phupho liwuphawu olungalungile. Uma wenqaba ukushada, lokhu yisibonakaliso esihle, esibonisa ukuthandwa phakathi kwamalungu obulili obuhlukile. Thola isiphakamiso sesandla nenhliziyo evela kumngane, khona-ke, maduzane kuzoba nezinguquko ezinhle.