Ayikho incazelo ecacile yamaphupho mayelana nowesifazane omdala, ngoba kubalulekile ukucabangela ezinye imininingwane zesakhiwo, isibonelo, ukuthi yini ngempela, okungukuthi, okuhle noma okubi, wenzeni, ukuthi uxhumana kanjani nayo, njll. Kuphela emva kokudweba isithombe esinemininingwane singaqhubeka nokuhumusha.
Kungani owesifazane omdala ephupha?
Uma owesifazane oneminyaka yobudala ethukuthele futhi ememeza - lokhu kuyisixwayiso mayelana nokuba khona kwengozi ethile. Esikhathini esizayo esiseduze kuyakudingeka ukuba uqaphele futhi ungabambi iqhaza kwimicimbi engaqondakali. Ukubona ephusheni owesifazane osekhulile ocela ukusizwa yi-harbinger yokulahlekelwa imali , ngakho-ke kufanelekile ukuba uqaphele. Owesifazane endala egqoke umshado omhlophe ephusheni isibonakaliso esihle, okusho ukuthi maduzane izinhlelo ezidala zizogcwaliseka.
Ukubona ephusheni owesifazane omdala owesabekayo ebhokisini elimnyama kuyisibonakaliso esibi, esibonisa ukuthi kwenzeka ukugula isikhathi eside. Umhumushi wephupho ukhuthaza ukuthi usebenzise lokhu okusheshayo futhi unakekele impilo yakho. Uma lo wesifazane endala ehlezi emhlophe, khona-ke kuzoba khona izenzakalo ezijabulisayo, kanti lophupha uzokwazi ukuzijabulisa nabangani bakhe. Iphupho lapho owesifazane omdala oqalekisile ebonakala egqoke elimnyama kuyisiginali sokuthi kufanelekile ukulungiselela uchungechunge lwezinkinga ezizovela emsebenzini.
Uma owesifazane osekhulile ejabule futhi ehlaba umomotheka, ungalindela ukuthuthukisa isimo kuleso sigaba sezinto ezibonakalayo. Iphupho lapho kuvele khona owesifazane omdala ongegundane nombi, kusho ukuthi indlela yokufeza injongo kudingekile ukuba ubhekane nezinkinga ezihlukahlukene. Ukuze ubone ugogo ofile ebhokisini, kufanele ulindele izindaba ezimbi. Ukuphuza owesifazane osekhulile ocela usizo kuyisibonakaliso sokuthi ngokushesha umngane uzodinga usizo. Uma owesifazane osekhulile ebangela imizwelo emihle, khona-ke ungathembela empumelelweni ebhizinisini.