Mhlawumbe, inkulumo ethi amadayimane bangabangane abangcono kakhulu bamantombazane, wonke umuntu uyazi, kodwa lapha, ukubizwa kobuthongo ngabo. Ukuze uthole ukuthi ikuphi ukulungiswa okukulungiselele, ukuthumela izimpawu ezinjalo, udinga ukukhumbula imininingwane eminingi nokulayisha ngokomzwelo ngangokunokwenzeka, bese uqhubeka ukuchaza.
Iyini iphupho lamadayimane?
Uma ungumnikazi wedayimane, umsebenzi owenziwe uzohlonishwa. Iphupho, lapho uhanjiswa khona ngedayimani lesipho, uthola ukwamukela inhlonipho nokuvikelwa kubantu abazungezile. Noma kunjalo kungaba yisimangaliso sokuthola into ebalulekile. Ukwethula umuntu onesipho esinjalo kusho ukuthi, empeleni uvame ukukhombisa ukugqithisa kwakho. Uma ulahlekelwe ubucwebe, kuyisibonakaliso sosizi. Futhi iphupho elinjalo yisixwayiso sokuthi kufaneleka ukuba uqaphele, ngoba kukhona ingozi yokuphanga. Umbono ebusuku, lapho kwakudingeka ukugeza amadayimane, ubikezela injabulo nokuphila kahle kwezinto ezibonakalayo. Ukuphupha indandatho yedayimane, ngakho esikhathini esizayo ungajabulela ukuphila okunethezeka. Noma kunjalo kungaba yinto ejabulisayo yokungcebeleka okumnandi embuthanweni wabangane abaseduze.
Ngentombazane iphupho, lapho ethola khona isipho ngedayimane kusuka othandekayo wakhe, uthembisa umshado wokuqala. Uma uthenga amadayimane - lokhu kuyinkimbinkimbi yezinkinga ezinkulu, ekugcineni kungaletha inzuzo ebalulekile. Umbono ebusuku, lapho uthola khona ukuthi amatshe ahlanganiswe, uxwayisa ngemizwa yokukhohlisa. Ukuchazwa kwephupho yiziphi izidayimane ezibangelwa ukuzwa okungajabulisi, ukuhumusha, njengesiphakamiso sokuhlaziya impilo yakho, mhlawumbe ukhethe indlela engafanele noma okubekwe phambili ngokungafanele. Uma uqoqa amadayimane, khona-ke amathemba akhona awahloselwe ukugcwaliseka. Iphupho lamacici anamadayimane, ngenxa yowesifazane - uphawu lokungacabangi komuntu othandekayo.
Kungani idayimani ezinkulu namadayimane?
Amatshe amakhulu afanekisela izifiso ezingenakwenzeka. Ngisho nephupho elinjalo lingakuxwayisa ukuthi ngenxa yezifiso zakho uzolimaza imbangela. Idayimani ezinkulu ziwuphawu lokuphumelela ebhizinisini nasemsebenzini, okuzokwenza ngcono kakhulu isimo sezimali.
Kungani uphupha ngokuthola amadayimane?
Iphupho elinjalo liwuphawu lokuthandana. Noma kunjalo kungaba uphawu lokungalindelekile. Kwezinye izimo, ukuthola igugu kuyisifo se-eye.