Izingane mayelana ne-Great Post

Esikhathini sethu, lapho cishe noma yikuphi ukwaziswa kufinyeleleka kubantwana ngenxa yokusabalalisa kabanzi kwezindaba kanye ne-intanethi, kubaluleke kakhulu ukufaka ingane ingxabano engokomoya. Lokhu kuzomsiza ukuba agweme amaphutha amaningi futhi abeke phambili ngokufanele impilo yakhe esikhathini esizayo. Njengoba abazali abaningi bebhapathiza izingane zabo emkhosini wama-Orthodox, ngendlela efinyeleleka ukutshela izingane nge-Great Post ngaphambi kwePhasika, kubalulekile nje.

Kuyathakazelisa kangakanani ukuhambisa ulwazi mayelana ne-canon yezenkolo kumntwana osemncane?

Kubonakala kwabanye omama nobaba ukuthi akufanelekile ukukhuluma nge-Lent kubantwana: ngeke baqonde noma yini. Kodwa lokhu akunjalo: kuyamangalisa futhi ngomphefumulo owethulwe ulwazi ngalesi siko sobuKristu uzobekwa eceleni ekhanda lomntwana bese uletha izithelo. Ukuqala ukujwayelana neLente Elikhulu kanje:

1. Kungcono uma indaba yezingane mayelana ne-Great Post isetshenziswe yisihlobo esiseduze - umama, ubaba, ugogo, okungukuthi, umuntu umntwana amethemba. Mchaze ukuthi, ngokusho kwezinkolelo zobuKristu, umuntu uhlanganisa kokubili izinto ezibonakalayo nezingokomoya. Kodwa ngenxa yesono sokuqala sika-Adamu no-Eva (kufanelekile ukukhumbula indaba yase-Edeni kanye nokudalwa kukaNkulunkulu ngabantu bokuqala) izinto ngokuvamile zikhona. Ngakho-ke, ukuze unqobe ukubiza kwenyama futhi uhlanze imicabango yakho, kwasungulwa ukudla okusheshayo.
2. Ngemva kokutshela izingane mayelana ne-Great Post, qiniseka ukuthi uvakashela izinsizakalo, kodwa ungacindezeli ingane ukuba ihlale esontweni isikhathi eside kunokuba ikwazi ukuguga. Woza ethempelini nomndeni wonke futhi uthandaze ngobuqotho: ingane ngokuqinisekile izokhumbula lolu suku olukhethekile isikhathi eside.
3. Ungacindezeli izingane ukuba zithandaze noma zithole ukuhlanganyela: ngitshele ukuthi kungani udinga futhi ukuthi ungathanda kanjani indodana yakho noma indodakazi yakho ukuba isondele eNkosini yethu. Izingane ziphendula kakhulu futhi ngokuqinisekile zizophendula ucingo olunjalo olubucayi lokuhlonipha amasiko.
4. Engxoxweni mayelana ne-Great Post nezingane, qiniseka ukuthi ukhuluma ngemikhawulo yokudla (awukwazi ukudla inyama, imikhiqizo yobisi, njll), kodwa khumbula ukuthi ngaphambi kokuba uneminyaka engu-12 ubudala, ukuvimbela ingane ekudleni kwezilwane akufanele kuboniswe ngemithi. Buza ingane ukuthi yini ezimisele ukwenqaba, ukukhombisa uthando lwakhe nokuhlonipha ngokujulile uKristu - futhi kungenzeka ukuthi yena ngokwakhe uzojabula ngokuvumelana nokungathinti ikhekhe ne-chocolate evamile.
5. Ukuqoqa ukutshela mayelana ne-Fast Fast kubantwana, cabanga ukuthi ungayithola kanjani inkokhelo yokuzidela komKristu osemusha uma evuma ukwenqaba lesi sikhathi kusuka ku-TV noma kwikhompyutha. Mhlawumbe uzofunda, udwebe noma ubuke amafilimu amaningi, lapho ungaletha khona okuningi okuwusizo nokufundisa.