Wonke amantombazane amaphupho okuba yinkosikazi, futhi isikhulu sakhe kumele sibe yisikhulu phezu kwehhashi elimhlophe. Ngeshwa, impilo yenza izilungiso zayo futhi esikhundleni sezikhulu esivame ukuhlangana nazo ... kahle, hhayi kahle izikhulu. Ngezici zengqondo zabanye abantu futhi kuzoxoxwa ngakho.
I-Psychology ye-manipulator wesilisa
Vele wenze ukubhuka okugxilwe ngokwengqondo kubantu ukuthi babe yi-manipulators. Ngokuvamekile abavikelekile kakhulu, kodwa bazama ukungabonisi ngaphandle. Abaphathi bama-manipulators bangabonisa ukuhlukunyezwa , kulawo mazinga uma bengesongelwa. I-"trolls" enonya kunazo zonke kuyi-intanethi yizingcindezi kuphela.
Kusukela ekubukeni kwengqondo, abakwa-manipulators besilisa abakwazi ukubonwa uthando, futhi kubo, ubuhlobo nowesifazane kuphela yindlela yokuzuza ezinkampanini zezezimali, nsuku zonke, ngokomzwelo noma ngokobulili. Ngokuvamile, umuntu onjalo akakwazi ukuzwa imizwa yabantu, kungaba ubungane noma uthando. Emva kwakho konke, ukuze wakhe ubuhlobo obusekelwe ekuzweleni nasekuthembeleni, hhayi enzuzweni nasenxenyeni yobugovu, kudingeka ube ngumuntu ozimele. Kusho - ukuthanda nokwamukela wena kanye nezwe lonke, nazo zonke izinkinga zalo.
Psychology of the man-egoist
Esigabeni esandulele, sikhulume ngokuzithanda-nje njengekhwalithi ebalulekile yomuntu owanelisayo. Kodwa-ke, abaningi badibanisa ukuzithanda kwabo ngobugovu, kodwa lokhu akuyona into efanayo. I-Egoism - iphihliwe, i-hypertrophied, njengoba iboniswe efomini elibucayi le-mirror of self-love. Ngokuba i-egoist, inani eliphelele kuphela elinobuntu bakhe, ubona abanye abantu njengendlela yokufeza imigomo yakhe. Umuntu onjalo uvame ukuzikhathalela. Zonke izingxoxo ezizungezile ziphathelene nomuntu othandekayo. Yebo, kukhona inkulumo, ezungeze yonke indawo yonke ibhekene nobuntu bakhe. Kumuntu we-egoist, kunamaphuzu amabili kuphela okubuka - okwehlukile nokungalungile. Empikiswaneni, uzohlala emela umbono wakhe, engacabangi izingxabano zesitha, noma ngabe zikhulu. Usebenza, njalo uqondiswa kuphela yizifiso zakhe kanye nezintandokazi zakhe.
Ngokombono wezokwelapha kanye nokuqonda, owesifazane ekusebenzelaneni nomuntu onjalo kufanele akwazi ukuvikela izithakazelo zakhe, hhayi njalo uhambe. Khona-ke uyokuhlonipha futhi abhekwe naye.
I-Psychology yomnikazi wesilisa
Empeleni, bonke abantu ngandlela-thile - abanikazi. Futhi kusukela ekubukeni kwengqondo, lokhu kungenxa yokuthi umuntu, kunzima ukukhuthazelela ukuhlukunyezwa, ngoba. lokho kwehlisa ukuqiniseka kwakhe ukuthi unguyise wezingane zowesifazane wakhe. Ngokujwayelekile, lokhu akuphazamisi ngokukhethekile ubuhlobo. Kodwa-ke, kunezimo ezimbi kakhulu, lapho isimo somnikazi sikhula sibe yisifo. Amadoda anjalo ahlukumeza owesifazane ngomhawu wakhe, amholela ekufikeni kokungacabangi. Isibonelo, umuntu uphoqeleka ukuba agqoke cishe iveli, ukubika njalo ngemva kwesibili esetshenziswe ngaphandle kwendawo yakhe yombono, njll. nokunye okunjalo.
Abanikazi besilisa bavame ukungaqiniseki, ekukhangeni kwabo besifazane. Lokhu kuziphatha kuvamile kubantu abakhulu kakhulu kunezinkanuko zabo. Nakuba kukhona nabanikazi abanjalo abangaziqondi ukuthi "baya ngakwesobunxele," futhi ijaji, njengoba bekusho, abanye bebodwa.
Psychology of the tyrant man
Kunezinhlobo ezimbili ze-tyrant lapha:
- "Ingonyama-ingonyama" iyindoda enamandla kakhulu, ejwayele wonke umuntu olalelayo. Ngokujwayelekile unesikhundla esiphakeme emphakathini - umphathi omkhulu, usomabhizinisi. Ngokuvamile, lo ngumuntu osetshenziselwa ukuhola futhi angazi ukuthi igama lakhe lingabuzwa kanjani.
- "I-Tyrant-jackal" - ngokungafani nohlobo oludlulile, empilweni akukho okuningi okuye kwafinyelelwa, lokho kuqinisekisa ngokwezindleko zasekhaya. Mhlawumbe ngezikhathi ezithile, futhi uphakamise isandla sakhe, bese uphakamisa uma isimo sengqondo singalungile ngokuphelele. Noma kunjalo, uma esendleleni ukhona onamandla kunaye, noma ngaphezulu
ngesimo, noma ngokumane kungenza ukushintsha, ngokushesha kuphenduka isidalwa sokuthuthumela nokuqhaqhazelayo.
I-Psychology yomuntu ohahayo
Okokuqala, ake sichaze ngokwemigomo: umuntu ohahayo, lo akulona umuntu ongafuni ukuzithokozisa bonke abesifazane futhi amgcwalise ngezipho. Okuvamile, ngisho nommeleli ojwayelekile walolu hlobo lomuntu ngu-Plyushkin, i-hero yenanveli nguN. Gogol "Imiphefumulo Efile." Ngenhlanhla, empilweni yangempela izinhlamvu ezinjalo azivamile. Kodwa-ke, kunezilimi eziqinile eziqinile ezifuna ukuqonda ukuthi lezo zincintathu ezincane ezithandekayo azizona nje ezinye "ezithandwayo", kodwa ukugcina kwenkathi, kahle, kudingekile ekugqokeni kwesigqila sabo bonke abesifazane abazihloniphayo.