Kubonakala ukuthi abesifazane abahlukana nomthandi kunzima nakakhulu, ngoba bangokwemvelo nokuzwela okukhulu. Indlela yokusinda ekuhlukaneni nomuntu wakho othandekayo - azikho izeluleko zomhlaba wonke kule ndaba, kodwa, mhlawumbe, othile uzosiza izincomo zalabo abaye badlula kulolu vivinyo.
Amathiphu wokuthi ungasinda kanjani ekuhlukaneni nomuntu wakho othandekayo
Ukuhlukanisa nomthandi noma, nakakhulu nakakhulu, ukushiywa - kunoma yikuphi owesifazane okwethuka. Isimo sokuqala esimweni esicindezelayo ukufihla, njengenhlanzi, ukuya "endlini" -kuguqula isimo bese uqala ukumba. Futhi, mhlawumbe, okwesikhashana lokhu kuwusizo, kodwa uma ukucinga amaphutha ngokwakho kuphenduka ukubeka uphawu, kufanelekile ukuthatha izinyathelo eziphuthumayo.
Into yokuqala okufanele uyenze, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ubuhlungu kangakanani, ukubulala "ofakazi" bothando lwakho. Izithombe ezihlangene nezipho ezimnandi akunakwenzeka ukuthi ziphinde zibe umthombo wemimoyalo emihle, ngisho nomthandi wesikhathi esizayo abayidingayo phambi kwamehlo abo. Ngakho lahla konke okukukhumbuza ngothando olulahlekile. Ngaphandle kwesihawu - kudoti, amathoyizi athambile kuphela anganikezwa enkulisa ethile.
Isinyathelo esilandelayo ukugcwalisa ukungabi nalutho okuvelele ekuhambeni komuntu othandekayo. Konke kuxhomeke emcabangweni wesifazane: ungahamba uhambo, ubhalisele ukuqina, uqale ukufunda ulimi lwangaphandle. Futhi ungakhohlwa ukuzitholela izinqubo ezimnandi - ukusikhipha, ukugeza, njll.
Ungasinda kanjani ubuhlungu bokuhlukaniswa nomuntu othandekayo?
Naphezu kokuthula kwangaphandle, owesifazane emva kokuhlukanisana nomthandi wakhe ubude ubuhlungu. Abantu abanamandla ababonisi imizwa yabo,
Izindlela zokwelapha zobuciko zihle kulokhu. Isithombe sobuhlungu singadonswa noma siphuphuthekiswe, bese sibhujiswa. Labo abathanda ukudansa, ungazama ukuveza imizwa yakho emithinini yomdanso, bese-beza nomphumela ohlanganisa imvuselelo.
Enye indlela yokubhekana nobuhlungu ukusiza labo ababi nakakhulu. Kungaba izintandane, izivakashi zendlu yokuhlengikaza, izilwane ezilahliwe. Ukubonga kwabo okuqotho kuyoba ngumphefumulo ohluphekayo ube yi-real balm yokuphulukisa.