Uma uneminyaka engama-5-6 ubudala, umntwana kufanele alungiselele isikole ukuze isikhathi esisha sokuphila singamcindezeli. Lokhu akusebenzi nje kuphela ekuthuthukiseni amakhono wengqondo yengane, kodwa nokuqeqeshwa kwakhe ngokomzimba, kanye nokuchaza okwenzekayo, kusukela ekubukeni kokuziphatha.
Kulesi sihloko uzothola iseluleko somqondo wezokwelapha kanye neseluleko kubazali indlela yokulungiselela ingane esikoleni ngokuzimela ngaphandle kokubhekisela ochwepheshe abaqeqeshiwe.
Yini ingane okufanele ikwazi futhi ikwazi ukuyenza uma ingena ebangeni lokuqala?
Ukuphumelela ngokuphumelelayo kwekharikhulamu yesikole, ingane kufanele ibe namakhono athile. Omama nabomama abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi esikoleni indodana noma indodakazi yabo kufanele ifundise konke. Ngokungangabazeki, imisebenzi yabothisha nabafundisi kumele bafundise izingane izifundo ezithile, kodwa ngokuvamile abazali kufanele banakekele ukuthuthukiswa kwengane yabo nokusebenza kwabo okuhle.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukungena ekilasini lokuqala, i-kid kufanele ingalandeli ngemuva kwezinga lokuthuthukiswa kontanga, kungenjalo yonke impi yakhe ngeke iqondiswe ekutholeni ulwazi olusha, kodwa ekuthuthukiseni lawo makghono ayengakufumani ngaphambili. Ngokuvamile ngenxa yalesi sizathu, izingane ziqala ukuwa ngemuva kwalabo afunda nabo ekilasini, okungenakufakazela ukuthi ukusebenza kahle komntwana esikoleni, kanye nokucindezeleka okukhulu nokukhubazeka.
Cishe eminyakeni emi-5-6, ukuhlola ngokulinganayo ulwazi namakhono wengane yakho, ngesikhathi sokumfundisa amakhono ngaphambi kokuya esikoleni. Ngakho, uma uneminyaka engu-7, umntwana kufanele abize:
- amagama amaningana wezitshalo nezilwane ezivamile;
- isibongo, igama kanye nomuntu ohlonishwayo wabantwana nabazali;
- ifoni nekheli lasekhaya;
- zonke izinsuku zesonto, izinkathi, amagama ezinyanga;
- imibala engaba ngu-10-15 nezimo eziyisisekelo zejometri;
- eminye imithetho yomgwaqo;
- imisebenzi eminingi evamile.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, ingane kule minyaka kufanele iqonde futhi iqonde umehluko phakathi:
- imiqondo "ngenhla" futhi "ngezansi", kanye "kwesokudla" nese "kwesokunxele";
- izilwane zasendle nezifuywayo;
- izihlahla kanye nezihlahla;
- izithelo, imifino kanye namajikijolo;
- izincwadi nemisindo;
- ama-vowels nama-consonants.
Okokugcina, umqambi wokuqala kufanele akwazi:
- funda imisho yamagama angu-4-5 noma ngaphezulu, futhi uqonde okufundwayo;
- ukuqagela amapuzzli nokuxazulula izinkinga ezilula zesikhathi sakho;
- thola umehluko phakathi kwalezi zithombe ezimbili uphinde ugcizelele izindawo ezivamile zamaqembu wezinto;
- buyisa izinkondlo ezincane emigqeni engu-5-6;
- chaza konke akubona esithombeni;
- Ukusebenzisa izikhali, ukwenza izinhlelo zokusebenza ezilula ngokwakho;
- ubambe kahle ipeni nepensela, udwebe izithombe ezilula, umthunzi futhi uhlobe imidwebo, ngaphandle kokushiya uhlaka.
Ungalungiselela kanjani ingane esikoleni ngokwengqondo?
Ukusiza ingane ukufunda amakhono adingekayo ekufundiseni esikoleni akunzima kakhulu. Kwanele ukunikeza imizuzu engu-10-15 usuku ngalunye ukuze ufunde amakilasi nengane. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ungasebenzisa njalo noma yikuphi amathuluzi okuthuthukisa, futhi ubukeka njengezifundo ezikhethekile zokulungiselela.
Kunzima kakhulu ukulungisa ingane kusuka endaweni yokubuka kwengqondo. Ikakhulukazi lokhu kusebenza kulabo bazali abaye babhekana nokubonakaliswa endodaneni noma indodakazi yabo yokunakekelwa kokungaboni kahle kokugula. Izingane ezinjalo zingase zikuthole kunzima kakhulu ukubona nokuvuma izinguquko ezintsha ezithinte izimpilo zabo.
Njengomthetho, izeluleko ezilandelayo kanye nezincomo zezokwelapha zezobuchwepheshe zisiza ukulungisa ngokwengqondo esikoleni somntwana, kuhlanganise nomuntu oyingozi:
- Ezinyangeni ezimbalwa ngaphambi kukaSeptemba 1, uhole ingane ukuba ihambe eduze nesikole futhi uqiniseke ukuthi uhlela uhambo, uchaza ngokuningiliziwe konke okuhlobene nokuqeqeshwa.
- Tshela izindaba ezimnandi mayelana nokuphila kwakho esikoleni.
Ungesabi ingane yakho ngothisha oqinile namamaki amabi. - Ngaphambi kwesikhathi, fundisa ingane ukuba iqoqe isikhwama futhi ifake umfaniswano wesikole.
- Kancane kancane wenze izinguquko embusweni wosuku - faka i-crumb ukuba ulale ekuseni futhi ufundise ukuvuka ekuseni. Ikakhulukazi kubakhathalela labo bantwana abangayi enkulisa.
- Ekugcineni, ungadlala nengane yakho esikoleni. Myeke abonise kuqala umfundi onganaki, bese efundisa othisha. Imidlalo yendima efana nezindaba ngokuvamile ivame kakhulu ngamantombazane.