Umntanakho usuvele uguqule iminyaka emibili ubudala. Kule minyaka yobudala, ingane ingabamba iqhaza eholidini ngaphansi kokuqondiswa kwabantu abadala. Abazali ngempela bafuna ukwenza usuku lwakho lokuzalwa lwesibili lube olukhanyayo futhi olungenakulibaleka, futhi ngalokhu udinga ukuchitha isikhathi esiningi nomzamo.
Cabanga indlela yokugubha ngokufanele usuku lokuzalwa lomntwana eminyakeni emibili.
Imibono yeholide
Lapho uhlela umkhosi, umuntu kufanele acabangele isikhathi sokuzalwa kwengane.
Uma ebusika noma ekwindla ngasekupheleni, kungcono ukuhlela iqembu elihle ekhaya nabangane nezihlobo. Isibonelo, khetha umbala obomvu noma obomvu bese uhlobisa igumbi ngamabhola, izimbali, napkins, ufake izitsha zalesi shanzi. Lapho ukhetha ingubo yomuntu wokuzalwa, kugcizelelwa i-suit ephuzi.
Izihloko ezehlukene zingakhetha kusuka ku-cartoon yakho oyikhonzile. Woza indaba ngeLuntika noma i-Pig Pig. Ungathola igama lembali noma ngisho nesithelo, okungase kube isihloko somsuku wengane.
Ngenani elikhulu lamantombazane nabamemenyiwe, ungakwazi ukuhlela idili lesikhathi se-cafe ene-animators. Ama-clowns nabalimi nabo bathandwa kakhulu manje. Kuyoba okuthakazelisayo ukurekhoda i-video-izifiso zemvuthu yakho kubo bonke abamenyiwe.
Ukuzalwa emvelweni - kumnandi futhi kungavamile
Uma ingane yakho izalwa ehlobo noma entwasahlobo, khona-ke ungahlela ipikinikini emoyeni ovulekile nemincintiswano ehlukahlukene yemidlalo. Lapho ukugubha iminyaka engama-2 yokuzalwa kwengane ehlobo, njengoba kungekho emvelweni. Kulokhu kubalulekile ukucabanga konke ngokugcwele, ukuze wonke umuntu azizwe ekhululekile futhi ekhululekile.
Ngaphambi kokugubha udinga ukukhetha ukuhlanza nokuhlobisa ngetimu ekhethiwe. Qinisekisa ukuza nokuhambisana komculo ngokuqoqa izingoma zezingane ezinganeni.
Ngosuku lokuzalwa "lwemvelo", imincintiswano ehlukahlukene isendaweni yokuqala. Isibonelo, "Amantongomane namathoyizi." Amantongomane kanye namathoyizi ahlanganiswe emgqonyeni owodwa, bese behlangana ngokushesha nomculo ube yinye ibhasikidi lamathoyizi, kwezinye izintuthwane. Noma umncintiswano "Umsila womama".
Namuhla, kunezinketho eziningi ezihlukene - kusukela emibuthanweni yasekhaya etafuleni kuya emikhosini amakhulu aneziqhumane. Kodwa, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi luphi uhlobo lweholidi okhethweni olungazange luyeke, into eyinhloko imvuthu yakho ukunakekelwa kwabazali, okuyinto ebonakala ekunakekeleni nasekuthandweni.