Ngokwezibalo, minyaka yonke imibhangqwana eminingi ihlukanisile, kodwa, ngeshwa, akekho ongaphendula umbuzo wokuthi zingaki zombili zombili ezahlukana futhi zahlangana ndawonye. Njengomthetho, umyeni ushiya umndeni, kodwa owesifazane kufanele nje alinde futhi akholelwe ukuthi uzobuya. Kodwa ingabe kufanelekile ukuba uhlale, ungaboni, noma udinge ngandlela-thile ulahle umphikisi wakho bese ubuyela umyeni wakho ekhaya? Ekuqaleni, udinga ukuhlaziya isimo bese uqala ukwenza okuthile.
Indlela yokubuyisela umyeni kumakhosikazi - iseluleko somqondo wezengqondo
Abesifazane abaningi abafuni ukwenza lutho ngokwabo, kodwa baya usizo lwabachwepheshe bezokwelapha abanolwazi usizo. Nanka amathiphu asemqoka abanikazi bezengqondo abanikeza abesifazane.
- Letha umzimba nomcabango ngendlela efanele . Akudingeki uhlale futhi ubambe usuku lonke nobusuku. Yiqiniso, udinga ukukhulula imizwelo, kodwa ngokushesha usondelane ndawonye. Ngemuva kwalokho ungakwazi ukugeza futhi uphumule. Futhi udinga ukuziphazamisa. Ukwenza lokhu, amafilimu amahle, amahle noma incwadi enhle. Ungayeki ekukhulumisaneni futhi uzihlukanise.
- Iqembu lezinkukhu . Uma owesifazane ethatha isinqumo sokubuyisela umyeni wakhe kumninkosikazi kumndeni, kufanele afunde ukuthi uzithanda kanjani futhi azibekelele yena. Ngakho-ke, ungamane umeme abamngane bakho futhi "uziqede" ngokugcwele, ukuze ukhohlwe ngenkathazo eyenzekayo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uma izintombi ziqotho futhi ziqotho, kungenzeka ukuthi ngeke nje zinikeze izeluleko ezinhle, kodwa futhi zisiza ukuhumusha okufunayo.
- Ukuthenga . Uma kwenzeka umbhangqwana uhlukanisile, kodwa emva kwalesi sihlukaniso owesifazane usafuna ukubuyisela umyeni wakhe kunkosikazi, khona-ke kudingeka adalule yena, ukukhombisa ukuthi ungcono. Ungaya ezitolo futhi uthenge izingubo zakho ezintandokazi ezinhle, uzame nge-hairdo, wenze i-tattoo esekude ukufuna noma ukuthenga izingubo zangaphansi ze-sexy. Ngokuvamile, yenza lokho okukufunayo isikhathi eside futhi wenze konke okusemandleni ukubukeka okumangalisa.
Iseluleko esingcono kunazo zonke sezengqondo mayelana nendlela yokubuyisela umyeni ukuthi owesifazane akufanele azame ukucasula umyeni wakhe ngazo zonke izindlela zokumbuyisela.
Ngalesi sikhathi, kuzomele uzame ukuziphilela ngokuphelele futhi uzame ukulahla ikhanda lakho yonke imicabango ngakho. Qala ukulungiswa endlini, shintsha isimo noma nje uhambe eholidini. Konke lokhu kuzosiza ngempela ukuqeda yonke imicabango ephazamisayo. Uma ukhanyisa futhi uphila impilo egcwele, khona-ke kuyoba khona ithuba lokuthi umyeni uzobuya, eqaphela ukuthi ulahlekile. Futhi uma kungenjalo-ungaphelelwa ithemba! Uma omunye umnyango uvala, abanye bavulekile, futhi ubani owaziyo ukuthi yini eyokulinda ngemuva komnyango omusha?