Ubhapathizo luyingcwelengcwele, lapho umuntu ehlanzwa khona ezonweni zakhe futhi abe yisikhonzi seNkosi. Ngemva kokufunda isakramente lokubhapathizwa, ingane izalwa kabusha - manje ngokomoya.
Ngesikhathi se-christening, umntwana unomunye ubaba nomama onkulunkulu. Ngaphambilini, ngokusho kwamasiko esonto, kwakukhona u-godfather oyedwa kuphela, umfana - indoda, intombazane - owesifazane. Kodwa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, lapho izikhathi zokungabi nalukholo nokuzikhohliswa kweza, kunqunywe ukuthi kungaba nzima kakhulu ukusindisa umphefumulo kanye nokholo lomntwana kumamukeli oyedwa (unkulunkulu). Phela, imisebenzi ka-godfather nomama inkulu kakhulu.
Yini okufanele u-godfather azi?
Unkulunkulu ungumqondisi ongokomoya wengane. Imisebenzi yakhe ihlanganisa:
- imfundo engokomoya ye-godson;
- umbiko wezingqungquthela eziyisisekelo, okuyinto isonto neBhayibheli elikushumayelayo, ukunakekelwa kwengane;
- Ukudla kanye nokuvuma kwengane esontweni;
- ukusiza abazali ekunakekeleni unkulunkulu noma indodakazi;
- umthwalo wempilo yokukhuliswa nokuhlonipha uNkulunkulu godu lapho kwenzeka ukufa kwabazali.
Futhi, ngokusho kwemithetho engaqinisekisiwe, ukuzithokozisa esikhathini esizayo kuzozitholela inhlangano ye-christenings.
Yini okufanele unkulunkulukazi akwenze?
Thenga isethi yokubhapathizwa:
- Ithawula elikhethekile elimhlophe elinokuhlobisa.
- Isambatho sokubhapathizwa isembatho esimhlophe nesibhondi, ngesikhathi sokubandayo - ama-panties amhlophe ne-blouse. Izintende nezinyawo kufanele zihlale zivulekile.
Yini uNkulunkulu omele akwenze?
- Hlela ama-christenings esontweni (uxoxe nompristi).
- Ukuhlela idili.
- Thenga isiphambano kanye nocingo noma uchungechunge.
Imisebenzi yoMhlonipho lapho ebhapathizwa
Ngaphambi kokubhapathizwa, abazali abazayo bahlanzwa ngokomoya - bavuma, bathola ukudla. Umama noma umama kudingeka afunde umthandazo othi "Isibonakaliso Sokholo". Lo mthandazo kuzodingeka ufundwe ngesikhathi semikhosi. Futhi u-godfather kufanele abe nesiphambano kanye nochungechunge. Unkulunkulu ngaphandle kwesethi sokubhapathizwa anganikeza unkulunkulukazi isipuni sesiliva.
Ngingayishintsha umama wami?
I-Godfather ingashintshwa kuphela ngaphambi kokuba umhlangano ubhapathizwe. Uma ngesinye isizathu i-kum yakho ingasakwazi ukubona ingane futhi kukhona umuntu ofanelekayo ozokhuphula ngokomoya ingane, uzoba ngumeluleki, kodwa hhayi uyise. Unina unkulunkulu akanakushintshwa noma.
Ubani ongeke abe nguNkulunkulu:
- abashadile abakwazi ukubhapathiza ingane efanayo, kodwa bangabhapathiza izingane ezahlukene emndenini ofanayo;
- abazali bomntwana;
- abantu abengekho okholweni lwe-Orthodox;
- abantu abagulayo ngengqondo.