Abanye bathi umengameli ngumsebenzi onzima kunabo bonke emhlabeni. Kodwa umculi ongumFulentshi onolwazi uNatalie Jomard akavumelani nalokhu. Ngosizo lwezithombe, ulungele ukufakazela ukuthi akukho kunzima nakakhulu kunokukhulisa ingane.
UNatalie wanquma ukutshela ngokukhululekile, noma kunalokho abonise ukuthi kunzima kangakanani ukuba ngumama: kusuka ekukhatheni okujwayelekile ukungabi nesikhathi samahhala. Kodwa ngazo zonke izinto eziyinkimbinkimbi, kunemfudumalo enkulu nenjabulo ezithombeni zakhe ezizokuqinisekisa ukuthi ukuba ngumama yiyona nto engcono kakhulu engenzeka kumfazi.
1. Ukuncelisa okungenakulibaleka okokuqala - nje ukuzwa okungenakuqhathaniswa.
2. Akuwona umzuzwana wokuthula - isabelo esijabulisayo sobazali.
3. "Sawubona!" - iphupho elingenakwenzeka!
4. Ukuzwa lokho lapho kungekho okunye okuvela ekhabethe lokugqoka okufanelekile.
5. Uhambo lokuthenga lunomnandi kakhulu.
6. Ubuhlobo phakathi kwabashadile buba yinto ehlukile, hhayi umthetho.
7. Uma izindlela nezindlela ezahlukene zingasebenzi, umama ngamunye uthola izindlela zakhe zokuxazulula izinkinga.
8. Kuze kube umama, akekho omele lokho ingane eyodwa ekwazi ukuyenza!
9. Ubuhlungu nenjabulo yilabo abangunaphakade abangamama.
10. Amathoyizi angcono kakhulu yilawo owawubese ukudweba, ukupheka, ukuhlanza, nokunye okuningi.
11. Umama ngamunye uba umqeqeshi ochwepheshe, okwazi ukuthwala izinto eziyi-100 ngesikhathi.
12. Enye yezinto ezibuhlungu kunazo zonke ukwesaba ukugqoka i-bikini futhi.
13. Ukuphumula ebhishi kuphenduka umzabalazo oqhubekayo ngemisebe yelanga.
14. Ukondla ingane kuduma bonke abantu abazungezile.
15. Ukufundiswa embizeni akupheli.
16. AmaMom asebenza njalo kwimodi ye-multitasking, ehlukaniswe phakathi komsebenzi nengane.
17. Ukusebenza, ngisho nesifiso esinamandla, kuba umthwalo ongenakubekezelela.
18. Abazali bayisibonelo kubantwana babo, ngakho-ke omama baphoqeleka ukuba badle ukudla okulungile, naphezu kokuzonda kwakhe.
19. Ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kutholakala ngaphandle kosizo, futhi kuphazamiseka.
20. Ngokufika kwengane, ungalindela njalo izinto zibe ezindaweni ezingalindelekile.
21. Amama njalo asebenzisa izincwadi ezikhethekile, ezama ukuthola izimpendulo zemibuzo yabo.
22. Wonke umama uyazi ukuthi kunjani ukuzizwa sengathi ibhaluni. Futhi njalo!
23. Ngisho nabomama abanamandla abazi ukuthi benzeni uma isilwane esilithandayo sesilwane sifela.
24. Umzamo wokugcina igunya elihlala njalo endlini uphenduka ukuhlukunyezwa.
25. Umzamo wokuqala wokushintsha i-diaper ukhunjulwa iminyaka eminingi, eminingi.