Ubhapathizo ngumkhosi okuvela kuwo lapho ujwayele khona esontweni lazo zonke izingane ezelwe emkhayeni wamaKristu kuqala. Ngaphezu komfundisi kanye nabazali bomntwana, unkulunkulu nomama, okuthiwa "abazali besibili", basuke bekhona lapho. Emahlombe abo kusukela kulo mzuzu umthwalo omkhulu wezingane ezingamanga, futhi kuyadingeka ukuba unakekele ukuqala ingane kusukela ngesikhathi somkhuba. Futhi manje mayelana nezipho ezethulwa ukubhapathizwa. Kodwa akubona wonke umuntu owazi ukuthi yisiphi isipho okufanele siphekwe. Isibonelo, yini ongayinikela intombazane engumKristu?
Isipho samantombazane angumKristu: isiko
Ngokwesiko, unkulunkulu unika i-korzhnyu - i-diaper noma ithawula, elifaka umntwana, kanye nehembe nekhanda - isethi intombazane ihlotshiswe ngamabhande ase pink. Isipho esinjalo sokwakhiwa kwe-christen kuvame ukuzenzela ngokwakho - bakha noma bakha i-christening dress and cap, abanye bangezela izingubo ngama-booties. Yiqiniso, ingubo eyenziwe ngezandla ingcono kakhulu, kodwa ikhi yokubhapathizwa esilungile ayikwazi ukuthengwa. Futhi ngaphambi kokuba izingubo ze-christian zizuze njengefa, ngokuvamile, manje, lokhu kwenzeka ngokungajwayelekile.
Ithebula kufanele likhethwe likhulu, uma intombazane encane kakhulu, futhi uma ingane ikhulile, ithawula lingathathwa ngobukhulu obujwayelekile. Ithawula, elithinta ingane isuswe kufonti, ngokwezifiso, ungasusi ngemuva kokubhapathizwa futhi ugcine ngokucophelela. Kukholelwa ukuthi uma ingane igule, leli thawula lizomsiza ukuba alulame.
Futhi, umsebenzi wabaninikazi bomzimba ukuthenga ingane isiphambano kanye nochungechunge, kodwa ngokwesiko, u-godfather kufanele akwenze. Insimbi lapho isiphambano siyokwenziwa akuyona into ecacisiwe - ingaba kokubili isiliva negolide. Ngokuqondene neketheni, kunezingxabano - isikhumba sethemba sengane singagubha, ngakho-ke isiphambano sokuqala sithathwa ngumntwana kwibhebhoni elithambile noma ngentambo. Kodwa ukunikeza lolu chain manje, akekho owenqabelayo, umfelokazi, lapho ekhula, uzokwazi ukugqoka isiphambano kuye. Futhi, emahlombe ka-godfather, ukukhokhelwa kwemikhosi yokubhapathizwa nokuqabuleka kuvame ukuwa.
Kukhona isipho esinjalo sendabuko, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi umfelokazi noma u-godson - i-spoon yesiliva. Lesi samanje sasibizwa ngokuthi isipho "emazinyweni," okungukuthi, kuyisiqalo sokuqala somntwana okuzosidla ngaso lapho kufika isikhathi. Kulezi zinkezo ngokuvamile udweba ngegama lomntwana noma uphawu lobuKristu.
Yini enye ongayinika umsikazi onobuKristu?
Ngezipho zendabuko zihlelwe ngaphandle, kodwa ngokuvamile azivumi lapho. Yini enye ongayinika intombazane ye-christening? Ngokuvamile unikeza ithoyizi elithambile nezifiso zentombazane, bese iba yintandokazi yomntwana. Abaningi bakhonta ubucwebe benkulunkulukazi, isibonelo, amacici intombazane engayigqoka lapho ekhula. Empeleni, ungakwazi ukunikeza lutho kuma-christenings, into eyinhloko ukuthi le nto iyasiza kumzali, manje noma lapho intombazane ikhula.
Abazali bomntwana on christenings bavame ukunikeza "amaswidi" ngezingubo zezingane. Ungayinika intombazane ingubo enhle noma izingubo zezingane ezithandekayo. Futhi uma ufuna ukugcizelela ukubandakanyeka kwakho esivumelwaneni, ungafaka izinto eziphathekayo kulezi zindlela noma ufisa ingane. Futhi unganika ingane encane yokulala, ithambile futhi imnandi kulokhu okuthinta. Into eyinhloko, khumbula ukuthi le ngxenye yezipho iyinkululeko, ayikho imithetho eqinile lapha - enye imali inikezwa abazali bomntwana. Konke okudingekayo kulesi sigaba ukuqaphela ukuthi ingane manje idinga ukunakekelwa kwakho, futhi. Futhi ukumnika usizo nokusekela manje kuyisabelo sakho esingcwele.