Ukuthuthukiswa kwengqondo nokuqonda
Kule minyaka yobudala, i-crumb izwa njengomuntu, ngoba kaningi kungaba yinto engafanele. Ngakho umntwana ubonisa ukuzimela kwakhe. Izingane zijwayele ukujwayelana nezwe elizungezile, inkulumo yabo iqala, futhi isilulumagama sigcwalisa. Abafana bavame ukubuza imibuzo eminingi, banentshisekelo kulokho okwenzekayo nxazonke.
Enkulumweni yezingane kukhona izinguquko ezinjalo:
- abantwana basebenzisa amagama, hhayi imisindo ngayinye;
- isilulumagama singaba ngamagama angu-700;
- ingane yakha imisho emagama amaningana, ingachaza isithombe, isebenzisa imisho emithathu;
- babiza izenzo ezahlukene, bangakwazi ukwenza izinto zibe ngamaqembu;
- engxoxweni usebenzisa iziphakamiso, izandiso, izichasiso;
- angasho izinkondlo ezincane;
- ibalwa ku-5 noma ngaphezulu.
Kodwa ngalesi sikhathi umuntu akumele alindele ukugqama okunamandla kakhulu. Amantombazane namanje akakwazi ukubiza imisindo ye-sibilant, kanye ne- "r".
Izingane ezineminyaka engu-3-4 zithanda ukuxhumana nabangane, ukudlala imidlalo yokudlala indima. Kukholelwa ukuthi ingane eneminyaka emithathu kufanele yazi amagama ezilwane, imifino nezithelo, amafomu, izimbali ezingu-6, ezinye izihlahla. Uvele esazi kahle izingxenye zosuku, ngezinye izikhathi zonyaka, ubiza lezi zenzakalo zemvelo. Futhi kufanele akhulume, njengegama labantu abaseduze, ukubiza isibongo negama.
Izingane kule nkathi ziqala ukubona ukuthi yini engenziwa, futhi yiziphi izenzo ezingamukeleki. Bangakwazi ukuveza izinhlelo zabo ngokushesha, isibonelo, okuyinto edlala kuzo. Izingane zicabangela ngobuciko, zivame ukudweba.
Amakhono omkhaya nokuthuthukiswa ngokomzimba
Izingane ziba zimele ngokwengeziwe, izenzo eziningi zenziwa ngokwabo. Ulwazi nolwazi lwezingane ezineminyaka engu-3-4 kungabuyekezwa ekuphileni kwansuku zonke. Kule minyaka yobudala, izinsana zinamakhono abalulekile anjalo:
- bangakwazi ukushaya ikhala labo emakhanda;
- kungaphazamisa noma kugqoke, izinkinobho ezingagudluki;
- bangakwazi ukuhlanza amazinyo abo, bageze, bageze izandla, basule, futhi baphinde bahlangane nethawula;
- ngesikhathi sokudla sebenzisa i-spoon, imfoloko, uphuze endebeni.
Phakathi nalesi sikhathi, ingane kufanele ihileleke kaningi emisebenzini yasendlini. Angasiza ekuhlanzeni, ebeka itafula, ebeka izinto ndawonye. Ukuthuthukiswa komzimba kubalulekile. Abafana namantombazane ngokuvamile bahamba ngomakhalekhukhwini, bememeza, basebenza. Bayazi:
- gxuma, ugijime, ume emlenzeni owodwa nasemasokeni;
- yehla ezitebhisini;
- ukudlala nebhola;
- ukugibela ibhayisikili (amasondo amathathu).
Lesi sikhathi sifanele ukuqala ukushayela imvuthu kwisigaba sezemidlalo.
Abanye omama bahlola ulwazi lomntwana eminyakeni engu-3-4. Yenza ngendlela edlalwayo, endaweni ekhululekile. Ungasebenzisa ngemisebenzi enjalo:
- khombisa izithombe zezinhlobo ezahlukene zejometri bese umeme umntwana ukuba abize (futhi ungabonisa amanye amaqembu ezinto, isibonelo, imifino, izithelo, izilwane);
- dweba amabhola ama-4 ngobukhulu obuhlukahlukeneko bese ubuza i-crumb ukuthola ikulu khulu neyincani khulu;
- khumbula
inganekwane, ake ingane ikutshele kusukela ezithombeni; - khombisa ukuthola izinto ezifanayo esithombeni.
Umama ngamunye angakwazi ukwenza imisebenzi efanayo, futhi kukhona nethuba lokuthola efanelekile kwi-intanethi.
Kukholelwa ukuthi konke okushiwo ngenhla kufanele kwaziwe ingane eminyakeni engu-3-4, kodwa ngisho nezingane ezinempilo azivumelani njalo nalezi zinqubo. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, umntwana uzobambisana nabangane bakhe. Uma abazali benemibuzo noma ukukhathazeka, kulungile ukufuna iseluleko kudokotela.