Ukukhetha izindandatho zomshado akuyona into ebalulekile futhi ebalulekile kunokukhetha ingubo yomlobokazi nokuhlela yonke imikhosi. Umcimbi wokugubha usuku luphela usuku olulodwa futhi luphela, kodwa iminwe yezithonjana zomculo izobe igqoke ngaphezu konyaka. Amanye amathiphu angezansi azokusiza ukuba ubone ukuthi ungakhetha kanjani izindandatho zomshado ezifanele. Ufuna ukuthi bafanane futhi bangabangeli ukukhathazeka nsuku zonke. Uma kungenjalo, bazothola masinyane ekamelweni eshalofini.
Yiziphi izindandatho zomshado ezingcono ukuzikhetha?
Izitolo zezingubo zokugqoka zikhazimula ngeziboniso ngezimhlobiso zegolide, zinikeza izinhlobonhlobo ezahlukene zokufaka izindandatho ezenzweni zesitayela nesimanje. Futhi bonke bathola abanikazi babo. Eziningi zezinketho ezihlongozwayo zenziwe ziphelele. Futhi lokhu kuyindlela engcono kunazo zonke kubafundi bezinyosi, ngoba izindandatho ezifanayo zimemezela konke mayelana nobuhlobo bakho, ngaphandle kwalokho bubukeka bunothando futhi buvumelana.
Ukuma nokuklanywa kwe "wedding band" kungahlukahluka, kodwa kungcono ukukhetha okukufanelekile. Ungathengi umkhiqizo omuhle okhwehlela kancane noma ngokuphambene nalokho, mkhulu kakhulu. Kungcono ukuzinika isikhathi esiningi, kodwa ukuthola i-pair yakho ekahle, kunokudabuka iminyaka eminingi ngokukhetha kwakho okungalungile.
Namuhla, abantu abasha abaningi banakekele umhlobiso wokuqala kanye nokuba khona kokuhlobisa emasongweni. Kungaba ukudweba, ukuqoshwa noma ubucwebe. Kodwa-ke, uma intombazane ithande ukhetho lokugcina, kufanelekile ukunaka iqiniso lokuthi ukuhlobisa kwendandatho akupheli, noma, nakakhulu, akuzange kuvele. Ngakho-ke, amatshe kufanele abe emvelo, futhi asebenze izinga eliphezulu.
Abanye abasanda kushada, becabanga ukuthi bangakhetha kanjani amaqembu omshado, balalele izibonakaliso zomuntu. Isibonelo, kubhekwa ukuthi kufanele kube bushelelezi. Kulokhu, abantu abasha bayoba nokuphila okufanayo, okungahambi kahle futhi ngaphandle kwezinkinga. Futhi kuvinjelwe ukunikeza othile ukuthi azame noma ahlele phansi ngaphambi komshado, ngoba uthembisa ukuhlukaniswa. Kodwa ukwamukela ngefa indandatho yokuzibandakanya evela kubantu asebekhulile ababesinda emshadweni wegolide kubhekwa njengelungelo elikhulu nesibonakaliso esihle.
Kodwa, akubona wonke umuntu okholwa ngezibonakaliso, futhi uthando olulodwa nje olulodwa luzoholela abantu abasha emndenini injabulo nenhlalakahle. Futhi izindandatho zegolide ezikhethiwe kahle zizojabulisa le mbhangqwana iminyaka eminingi.