Abesifazane abaningi bafuna ukwazi ukuthi bangaba kanjani owesifazane wangempela ukuze afane nezithombe zabo, njengabo ngokwabo futhi benze umbono omuhle emphakathini. Kukhona inkulumo enjalo: abesifazane abazalwa, abafazi bayaba. Futhi lawa ngamaqiniso eqiniso kakhulu, ngoba ukuba yinkosikazi akuyona into elula njengoba kubonakala, futhi ikhono lokuba yilo lidinga ukufundiswa ngokwakho. Ake sihlolisise lo mbuzo oyinkimbinkimbi futhi olula.
Ungaba kanjani owesifazane wangempela?
Ngakho-ke, inqubo yokuguqula ibhinqa ihlanganisa izici eziningana - kubonakala, izingubo, ukuziphatha emphakathini kanye nemikhuba. Ngayinye yalezi zici kubaluleke kakhulu, ngoba, ngokukhipha omunye wabo, umphumela omuhle awusatholakali. Zahlulela wena: kungenzeka yini ukubiza intombazane intombazane egqoke kahle, egqoke kahle, kodwa futhi isebenzisa ulimi oluhlambalaza nokubhema ezindaweni zomphakathi? Lokhu akunakwenzeka. Ngakho-ke, uma ufuna ukuba yindoda yangempela, kufanele uhambisane nawo wonke amaphuzu.
Ngakho-ke, kusho ukuthini ukuba owesifazane wangempela? Yiqiniso, njalo, ukuqapha ngokwakho, ukubukeka kwakho nokuziphatha kwakho. Owesifazane weqiniso, okhulumela ngokomfanekiso, uchitha konke ukuphila kwakhe ezinganeni zegciwane, ngaphandle kokuzikhawulela ngokuphelele, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo enesiqondiso esithile mayelana nokuziphatha nokuphila. Ukuze uqonde lokhu ngokuningiliziwe futhi uqonde ukuthi ungaba kanjani owesifazane weqiniso, ake sijwayele amathiphu ambalwa alula azosiza kule ndlela enameva eya kulowo oyifunayo.
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Ukubukeka. Okokuqala, ake sibheke ukuthi le ndoda yangempela igqoka kanjani, ngoba izinguquko zangaphandle zingokuqala, futhi zilula. Izembatho akufanele zivutha kakhulu noma zivuleke. Le nkosikazi kufanele igqoke ngendlela ephakeme, isifazane, inhlonipho, futhi kungenaso icala ngokungafanele. Khumbula ukuthi lapho amantombazane egqoka futhi ngokukhululekile, azenzele wona ngokwawo, kodwa akhangele abesilisa obuhlukile, kodwa abesifazane beqiniso bahlale begqoka ngokuzikhethela kuphela, ukuze babheke esibukweni bazizwe injabulo yokubukeka kwabo. Ngakho-ke, gqoka, ucabange, okokuqala, mayelana nawe. Ngokufanayo, yenza izimonyo nezinwele. Futhi, ungakhohlwa ukuthi izimonyo eziqhakazile kakhulu ngosuku liwukubonakaliswa kokunambitheka okubi futhi ngokujwayelekile, ukubonakala kwemvelo ngokwengeziwe kusithombe, kungcono.
Imikhuba. Isitifiketi senkosikazi yangempela kusho okuningi futhi ifika njalo kuqala. Ngempela, kunoma yisiphi isimo ongasikho, kubalulekile ukuba uziphathe ngesithunzi. Ukubheka okusizimele ngeke kusimangaze muntu, kodwa ukubekezela kuvame ukubangela ukubonga. Ukuziphatha kwalona wesifazane kuhlale kungenakwenzeka. Uyazi ukuthi aziphathe kanjani emphakathini, njalo uthi amazwi okubonga futhi ababingelele ngokuzithoba. Futhi, owesifazane angasho ukuthi "cha" lapho enikeza into engayithandi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kufanele kuqashelwe ukuthi owesifazane weqiniso uhlale ehlelekile futhi emomotheka amnandi, ejabulisa abanye.
Imfundo. Futhi, owesifazane wangempela akumelwe akhohlwe ngemfundo yakhe. Uma ufuna ukuba yindodakazi yangempela, khona-ke qhubeka ukhulisa ama-horizons akho: funda izincwadi ezihlukahlukene, unesithakazelo kulezo zindawo zesayensi nobuciko obukhangayo kuwe, ukuhamba. Ungalokothi ukhohlwe ukuthi intombazane yeqiniso ayiyona nje "insimu" enhle futhi enomusa, kufanele kube khona ukuthi ingcebo ngaphakathi.
Amakholomu ukuthi ungaba kanjani owesifazane wangempela, unganikeza okuningi, ngoba kunemithetho eminingi eningikazi okufanele ayilandele. Isibonelo, ukudla okunempilo kanye nendlela yokuphila enempilo. Kodwa kumele siqale kancane. Ngakho-ke, uma uzinqumela ukuthi ufuna ukuba yindodakazi yeqiniso, bese uqala okungenani ngento ethile, futhi ungalokothi unqume kulokho okuye kwafezwa, futhi konke okulandelayo kuzolandela.
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