Iminyaka eminingi, uma kungengamakhulu eminyaka, isimo "somamazala, umkhwekazi" sasidume ngamahlaya angathandeki nokuhlambalaza ekhelini layo. Kodwa kungakhathaliseki ukuthi umphakathi onobuhle awuhlekwa usulu nguninazala nomamazala, lezi zinkinga ziye zaphela isikhathi eside.
Kumele sikhumbule njalo ukuthi umama womfazi nomyeni uzama kuphela ukuzuzwa kwabathandekayo babo. Ngikholelwa, ngisho nomkhwekazi noninazala bangase bahlekise, bahlekise, bahlakaniphe, banakekele!
Sikulungele ukubhubhisa izinkolelo futhi sitshele wonke umhlaba ukuthi ukuphila ngaphandle komama womyeni wakhe noma umkayo kuhle, futhi naye - izikhathi ezingu-2 ezingcono kakhulu!
1. Yileyo ndlela umamazala akhathalela ngayo isilwane esithandwa ngumfazi wakhe - nje wabopha ikati elifudumele ebusika! Nakuba mhlawumbe umkhwenyana wakhe ubona kusuka kude?
2. Uninazala othanda intandokazi uhlale ekwazi okuningi ngemfashini. Into esemqoka ayikho ukuhlazeka!
3. "Akukaze kube yisikhathi sokufunda okuthile okusha!" - kusho umamazala futhi waqala ukubuyisa izithombe ku-Photoshop.
4. Kodwa lo mkhwekazi wanquma ukwenza ihlaya, elenga isithombe esihle endlini yangasese. Futhi akuyona into engathandeki ukuzwa ukuthi kungamadoda!
5. Nje isithombe somkhwezala nomkhwekazi ohamba nohambo lokuhamba.
6. Umkhwekazi wakho othandekayo wayenakekela umphongolo ngemicibisholo - ungabona ngokushesha lokho kwenziwa ngothando nokukhathalela.
7. Bonke omama banezinja nezinja! Siyabonga ngokungabi yimbuzi!
8. Isipho esivela kumamazala omkhosi. Ngendlela, ngombono wakhe, lokhu kuyimvula yamanzi eyenza ilanga, hhayi lokho okucabangayo!
9. Ngiyavuma ukuthi isidlo somndeni - kuyamangalisa? Bheka, awukwazi ukucabanga okungcono kunokwelapha. Ngokushesha kuvusa isifiso!
Indoda yomyeni wami yanikeza umzukulu omncane ngesipho sangempela, embiza ngokuyimfihlo ngokuthi "Ukuziphendukela kwemvelo yendodakazi yethu."
11. Angazi kanjani ukumphika umama uma ngokungazelelwe anqume ukuza ukudla kwakho? Nikeza ukukhulumisana kwakhe okungokoqobo - nganoma isiphi isikhathi ungakwazi ukuvala, ubhekisela ekuqhumeni kwamandla.
12. Isinkwa esibucayi somamazala ukuthi iqiniso lokuthi indodana yakhe ayisekho "ethandwa kakhulu."
13. Ubona lokhu kubonakala okujabulisayo kobuso bomamazala lapho belungiselela umshado? Futhi inani lotshwala? Konke kucacile ngaphandle kwamazwi!
14. Khumbula: kungumqondo omubi kakhulu ukuvumela umkhwekazi alungise izingubo zeMikhosi Yonyaka Omusha.
15. Lapho uthenge ihhavini entsha futhi wamema umkhwekazi wakho ukuba adle ukudla, futhi ngomusa wavuma ukwenza i-pizza enomnandi. Ungenzi lokho!
Izipho zangempela ezivela kuninazala zihlale ziyisivunguvungu nemicabango.
17. Kungabe kuyisiphuzo esihle esivela kumamazala wami noma akufanele yini ukuzama?
18. Umamazala namanje basunguli! Ukumangala okunjalo kulindelekile abasha endlini kaMamazala.
19. Akekho ocabanga ukuthi yini embi ngalesi sipho kumama wakhe?
20. Uma uphupha ukuthola okuthile okuqala ngosuku lwakho lokuzalwa, ulinde isipho esinjalo kumamazala wakho. Ngendlela, esithombeni kukhona i-chiller (epholile) yobhiya.