Ukubalekela okuthile noma othile kusho ukusaba nokwehluleka ukubhekana nale nkinga. Uma ukhumbule kahle iphupho lakho futhi ungakwazi ukulikhiqiza ngemininingwane, khona-ke ngosizo lwezinguqulo ezihlongozwayo uzokwazi ukuthola ulwazi oluningi oluthakazelisayo mayelana nekusasa nalokho okwamanje.
Kungani uphupha ukubalekela?
Ngokuvamile, amaphupho anjalo afanekisela ukungqubuzana kwangaphakathi, mhlawumbe awukwazi ukuthola indlela efanele yokuphuma esimweni esinzima isikhathi eside. Ngisho namaphupho anjalo angahunyushwa ngokuthi isifiso sokufihla kubantu abazungezile. Uma uphumelela ngokuphumelelayo ekuxosheni - kuyisimo esihle, ukuthi uzobhekana nanoma iyiphi inkinga, futhi wonke amacala azophela ngokuphumelelayo. Ukubalekela ibhere ephusheni kusho ukuthi empeleni kuzodingeka ubambisane nomuntu oye wakhathaza. Kuwesifazane, iphupho lapho ebalekela khona indoda lingachazwa njengokudumazeka othandweni noma ukukhashelwa. Uma lo muntu engumthandi, khona-ke iphupho lifanekisela ukungaqiniseki kuyo. Ukugijimela ephusheni enjaweni, khona-ke kufanele ubhekisise kakhulu abantu abakuzungezile, ngoba omunye umuntu uhlambalaza futhi ufuna ukukusetha. Enye iphupho efana nalokhu ingafanisa ukukhawulwa komngane oseduze.
Uma uzama ukufihla emaphoyiseni, cishe, uhlushwa yizizwa zecala ngenxa yesenzo esanda kwenziwa. Ukugijimela nokufihla ephusheni kusuka emasayac kusho ukuthi empeleni kuzodingeka uqoqe wonke amandla ukuze uqede ubunzima bokuphila. Iphupho lapho ubalekela khona ihhashi uthembisa usuku lothando. Ukugijimela ephusheni kusuka enyoka, kusho, ngaphambi kwakho kulindeleke ukuthi izinkinga zempilo, okungenzeka ukuthi zizokhathazeka ngesistimu ye-urrogenital. Incazelo yephupho ikhuthaza ukuthi uvakashele udokotela ngaleso sikhathi. Ukugijima kude nenkunzi ephusheni, kusho ukuthi empeleni uqale ukudlala, futhi nomuntu ongenakwa.