Ukukhululwa kwabafazi kwaqala eminyakeni yokuqala yekhulu lama-20. Namuhla, owesifazane okhululekile, ozimele futhi okhuthazayo akavamile. Ummeleli wesilisa ocansini ocansini ngokuzijabulisa wathatha umhlaba omkhulu wesilisa: kusuka ekugqokeni izingubo kuya kwezamabhizinisi. Ngakho ngubani lo mholi wesifazane? Yini ehambisana naye futhi isitayela sakhe sobuholi sehluke kanjani kumuntu?
- Ukuhlakanipha komphakathi. Umholi wesifazane unomzwelo okhethekile ebuhlotsheni phakathi kwabantu, ubamba ngokuphumelelayo umzuzu wenkinga yokukhula futhi uyakwazi ukusebenzisa lolu lwazi ngezinhloso zawo siqu. Vumelana ukuthi ikhono lokuqonda ubuhlobo bomsebenzi osebenza nabo kanye nabalingani bakho kubalulekile ebhizinisini futhi owesifazane ezindabeni ezinjalo kungokwemvelo ngokwamukelekile.
- Ukuvimbela ukuzwela. Umzwelo ophezulu, umholi wesifazane kufanele afihle futhi alawule. Ukuphakama kwemizwelo nokuphathwa kwenhlangano kanye nezikhundla zobuholi akuhambisani, esimweni esinjalo ukuqonda okubandayo kuyadingeka.
- Umsebenzi nokuzijabulisa: akuvunyelwe ukuxuba. Owesifazane ngokucacile udonsela umugqa phakathi kwebhizinisi nokuzilibazisa futhi akavumeli ukuba awele. Lokhu kuyisimo esithile sokuzivikela, ngoba ekukhundleni kobuholi, intombazane, njengombuso, igozwe yindoda, futhi kudingeka iqaphele ukuthi manje, ingu-ke kuqala, ochwepheshe bezinga eliphezulu.
- Ukuphelela. Umholi wesifazane uveza ngokucacile imicabango yakhe nezifiso zakhe, ulawula amaphutha akhe kanye nabanye abantu. Ngokujwayelekile, ukhetha amathemba amancane okuhlala isikhathi eside. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, umphumela lapha futhi manje uqinisekisa ngokugcwele ubuholi bawo nobuchwepheshe bawo, kepha ngezinye izikhathi udinga ukucabanga emhlabeni jikelele. Ukuze impumelelo ihambisane isikhathi eside ngangokunokwenzeka, ngezinye izikhathi udinga ukubheka kancane kancane kunokujwayelekile.
- Akukho ukubusa. Okuhlangenwe nakho kubonisa ukuthi abesifazane abazama ukuthatha isitayela besilisa abaphathi abahlali baphumelela njalo. Ubuholi besifazane buhlangene, buyakwazi ukudlulisela igunya kulabo abangaphansi, ukugcizelela ukuhluka kwabo nokubaluleka kwenkampani, ukuhlanganisa abantu ngaphansi kobuholi babo. Lesi sitayela sobuholi sifana nokuhlanganiswa komkhaya omkhulu - ikhono elilodwa nje lobufazi.
- Ukukholisa. Umholi wesifazane uyakwazi ukuveza isithakazelo somsebenzi, uma othile engabaza mayelana nezenzo zakhe, ngokuqinisekile uzoqinisekisa amathuba akhe ekusebenzeni. Ngenxa yokukwazi kwakhe ukuqonda izidingo zabanye, uyakwazi ukukholisa nokugqugquzela abaphathi bakhe.
- Amakhono azoshintsha. Umholi wangempela wesifazane angakha kabusha ngokushesha kusuka komunye umthwalo womphakathi kuya komunye (kusukela "kumholi" kuya "kumkami, umama"). Udinga futhi ngemuva okuthembekile, ngendlela yokuqonda nokusekela ukuqala komndeni wakhe. Kubonakala sengathi akwenzi umehluko okwenziwe yinhloko yendlu, futhi izinkinga zakhe zansuku zonke ziyini? Uma ufika emsebenzini, konke okushiywe ngemuva kwezindonga zehhovisi. Maye, kodwa ngokuqondene nabesifazane, lo mthetho awusebenzi. Owesifazane ufuna ukubandakanya kulokho okwenziwe njengendabuko ibhizinisi "lomuntu," kodwa akafuni ukuyeka ibhizinisi "labesifazane" (futhi ngezinye izikhathi akakwazi). Ukuhlanganisa lokhu, umane nje udinga ukuqonda nokusiza, okokuqala, kumyeni wakhe.
- Ukuzijabulisa. Okumangalisa ukuthi emsebenzini, umholi wesifazane uzimisele ukuthatha izingozi. Mhlawumbe kuyindaba yokufunda okungenasisekelo, okungenasisekelo ukuthembela kuyo?
Kunoma yikuphi, owesifazane ugijima engozini futhi uvame ukuwina. - Umbono owanele wokugxeka. Uma ehlambalaza umholi wesilisa, uvame ukuthatha yona, ngoba umsebenzi ungenye yezindlela zakhe eziyinhloko zokuziqhenya esikhathini esedlule. Mhlawumbe, ngoba umholi wesifazane unendima ebaluleke kakhulu - "umama" angakwazi ukuziveza wona, ukugxeka emsebenzini akumthandi kakhulu. Uyakwazi ukuvuselela amazwana atholakele futhi azuze kubo.
- U-Charm. Yiqiniso, umholi wesifazane ngeke ahlanganyele ngothando nabalingani bakhe ukuphetha ukuxoxisana. Kodwa-ke, kusukela ekuzalweni, uye wakwazi ukuba nabantu abakuzungezile, futhi ikakhulukazi amadoda. Uma isikhawulo sokungabaza ekusebenzeni komholi wesifazane kunqotshwa, amadoda aqonda owesifazane wakhe ezingeni elingenakuqonda. Unakho lokhu kungabaza? Yebo, akuwona wonke owesifazane oholayo oziphatha ngale ndlela, kodwa kukhona amaphutha abo ngaphezulu. Ungakhohlwa ukuthi ngisho njengomholi, uhlala ungowesifazane futhi ungasebenzisa ngempumelelo izintelezi zakho zesifazane ebhizinisini.