Kodwa futhi kwenzeka ukuthi ingane iqala ukuhlukumeza ngokuhamba kwesikhathi kunalokho okuvunyelwe ngokuvamile, noma ngokuvamile ihlale ingenalutho iminyaka engu-2-3, esikhundleni sokukhulumisana ngamazwi kanye nezenzo zokuthi "khona". Ngokuvamile omama babhekana nale nkinga, bengakwazi ukuthi benzeni kuleli cala.
Isizathu salokhu kuziphatha kungaba kokubili ukubeletha okubelethwe komlomo, nokukhulumisana okunganele nabantu abadala. Kodwa noma yikuphi okuyiwona ongumsuka wenkinga, abazali, yebo, bavame ukukuxazulula ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka. Ake sibheke izindlela ezisemqoka zokufundisa ingane ukuba ikhulume ngokushesha futhi uzame ukuzifunda ngokusebenzayo.
Indlela yokufundisa ingane ukukhuluma?
Kulo msebenzi uzonikezwa izivivinyo ezihlukahlukene ezakhiwe ngomdlalo:
- Ukuhumusha okulungile kwamakholomu amakhulu kanye nemisindo ehambisanayo (abazali noma uthisha babonisa ingane isithombe esichazwe ngendawo yokuqothula, amaqabunga omuthi wesihlahla, njll);
- ngoba ukuthuthukiswa kwezinto zokufakelwa kwezingane ezincane ezineminyaka engu-1-2 kuyasiza ukufundisa ukulingisa amazwi ezinyoni nezilwane;
- ukubiza amagama ama-syllables amathathu noma ngaphezulu ekufundiseni ukuphefumula kwenkulumo (ungaqala ngengoma elula efana ne "la-la-la");
- ukuthuthukiswa kwamakhono emoto amnandi , okusiza ukukhuluma ingane. Kungaba imodeli kusuka ebumbeni noma eminwe yeminwe;
- ingane iminyaka engama-2-3 ingatshela indaba ethakazelisayo noma ijwayele ukuyiqonda inganekwane, iphazamise endaweni ekhangayo kunazo zonke futhi iphakamise ukuqhubeka nokuqhubeka.
Kufanele ngikhulume kanjani kahle nengane?
Kunezidingo ezimbalwa ezilula, okungukuthi, njengesiqondiso, kusiza ukukhuluma ingane engathuli:
- Esikhundleni sokubuza ukuthi "yisho," "phinda," ukwakha izingxoxo nomntwana, okwenza umehluko lapho kufanele kube khona amagama akhe;
- ukudlala imidlalo ehlangene ndawonye, tshela izenzo zakho ("Ngithatha amabhulokhi futhi ngakha umbhoshongo", "Ufuna ukungisiza?", "Nginike i-cube eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka futhi ngizothatha ophuzi", "Uyabona ukuthi ubude bombhoshongo waphuma kanjani!". imibuzo, ngisho noma engabaphenduli okwamanje;
- unikeze imishwana yakho imibala engokomzwelo, yenza inkulumo-mpikiswano - abantwana bathanda ukukhuluma;
enkulumweni yokukhulumisana ungafaki ukuxhumana nomuntu oxhumana naye futhi ngokuvamile ubiza amagama omntanakhe othandekayo negama: kufanele njalo uzizwe usekela nokuthanda kwakho; - Ungabe "ulalele", ubiza wonke amagama nemisho ngendlela efanele, ngokucacile nangokucacile. Ingane kufanele izwe inkulumo enhle nekhono kuphela, ukuze yakhe kahle imisho yakhe esikhathini esizayo.
Njengomkhuba wokubonisa, ukufundisa izingane ezincane ukukhuluma, udinga nje ukuzinika isikhathi esincane - okwanele kuyoba isifundo samaminithi angu-15 ngosuku. Uma ingane ikhulile kunezinsuku ezingu-3-4, le nkinga isaphila, kunengqondo ukuphendukela kumthandi wezinkulumo.