Imbukiso yefashini noma indlela yokuzidonsa ndawonye?

Kusukela kusikrini se-TV, siyacelwa ukuthi sixazulule ukuxazulula zonke izinkinga zethu bese senza i-Cinderella ibe yinkosikazi. Zonke izinhlobo zemibukiso mayelana nokuphindukuzalwa, ukulahlekelwa isisindo noma isitayela sishintsha ngokuphelele lo wesifazane futhi sishintshe isimo sakhe sengqondo kuye. Esinye isixazululo esinjalo sibonakala singcono kakhulu. Ama heroine avela esithombeni sabesifazane abanesibindi, abazimisele ukuzenza kabusha. Olunye umbono oqondile luhlukile - lena yindlela elula, kodwa umphumela ovela kuwo uzohlala isikhathi esifushane. Uke wabona kaningi kangakanani imidwebo yeposi, lapho bethi mayelana nokuthuthukiswa empilweni yalabo besifazane abasha abadayile izinwele zabo futhi bavuselele ikhabethe?

Sebenza futhi uphinde usebenze

Njengoba udumekazi odumile uCoco Chanel esho ukuthi, uma owesifazane engamhle, uvele ewubuwula. Ngempela, ukuhlakanipha okukhulu kanye namadiploma amaningana amanyuvesi ahloniphekile akukona isiqiniseko senjabulo yabesifazane.

Ama-selebreti amaningi angaphandle nakwasemakhaya anemininingwane yangaphandle, kude kakhulu nemingcele ehlonishwayo, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo abe yizithonjana zesitayela. Isibonelo, uScarlett Johansson . Vumelana ukuthi i-waistline encane noma ukukhula kwe-model, ayikwazi ukuziqhayisa. Kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo uhlala emnyuziyamu weWoody Allen futhi uvame ukubizwa ngokuthi i-Monroe entsha. I-Scarlett iqiniseka kakhulu ekungaboni kahle kwakhe ukuthi wonke umuntu ozungezile nje akaqapheli ukungabaza.

Futhi kufanele senzeni, abantu nje? Yebo okufanayo!

1. Zonke lezi zinkimbinkimbi zivela ebuntwaneni. Lokhu kuyiqiniso futhi akungabazeki ngakho. Kubalulekile kuqala ukuthi uziqinisekise ngokungaqondakali kwakho, futhi kuphela kokunye. Thatha wonke amaphutha bese uwahambisa ngendlela yamaviniga.
2. Sebenzisa. Amantombazane amaningi avame ukuzihawukela, athi, imvelo iye yawukhulelwa. Imvelo futhi ayizange icabange ukukunika okuningi noma ngokuphambene nokuyithatha. Yonke imilenze yethu emifushane, amathanga aphelele noma amehlo amancane kakhulu ngesimo sengqondo esifanele siyoba into ekhethekile. Ngakho ngesibindi ungena ku-intanethi ukuthola ama-master amakilasi ekwenzeni, amathiphu avela kuma-stylists namaveliveli atholakalayo wezinkathi zonyaka.
3. Qala ukuhlala ngaphansi kwesiqubulo esithi "Ngingumuntu ovilaphayo noma omuhle." Ngabe sinquma kangakanani ukudweba izipikili zethu, ngoba kusasa baqala ukuhlanza, noma abageza izinwele zabo ngempelasonto (kusesehlezi ekhaya, ngemuva kwakho konke). Konke ukuvilapha. Ungakwazi ukuhlanza kanye namagilavu, futhi uhamba ngokuzungeze indlu ngomsila omubi kanye nezinsila ezingenalutho futhi ungazihloniphi wena.

Ubuhle buvela kuphi?

Iningi lalokho esikwenzayo nsuku zonke, ubuchopho buzenzekelayo. Awucabangi ukuthi ungabamba kanjani imfoloko, indlela yokucindezela ipensela noma ukwenza enye imisebenzi yansuku zonke. Umkhuba. Njengoba sesifundile kanye, asiqapheli lezi zihluthulelo futhi konke kwenzeka ngokwemvelo.

Umuntu unamasonto alanele ukuthuthukisa umkhuba omusha. Vumelana, kuphela isonto lomsebenzi okhiqizayo ngokwakho kufanele imiphumela ophuphayo? Into yokuqala okumele ikhonjiswe yizikhathi ezinzima. Uyakhumbula ukuthi ngisebenza kanjani embukisweni wezemfashini mayelana nokuphindukuzalwa? Okokuqala, bafuna izimbangela zezinkinga ze-heroine, bese bezixazululisa ngokuzithiba kwengqondo, futhi sebevele beya endleleni yokuqhubeka nezinguquko zangaphandle.

Qala okungenani ngezikhathi ezithile ukuthenga izincwadi ezifingqiwe eziphezulu. Lapho uzothola amathiphu ama-stylists, amafashini amasha namathiphu okuzinakekela wena. Okulandelayo, thatha ikhabethe lakho. Ukuthenga izinto ezintsha ngesikhathi esisodwa akusizi futhi kuyabiza. Kungcono ukuqala ngokuthenga izingxenye eziningana ze-wardrobe eyisisekelo. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, qiniseka ukuthi usondela ngolwazi ngalolu daba: uzicabangele ngokwakho esibukweni uphinde ugcizelele amandla nezibuthakathaka.

Vumela okungenani uhambe uthengise futhi uzame ngezinto ezimbalwa. Awudingi ukuzithenga. Kodwa lona wesifazane esitolo lapho ebona ukubonakala kwakhe esibukweni esikhaleni esingenakuqhathaniswa umqondisa futhi aphakamise ikhanda lakhe! Kanye ngesonto noma ngenyanga, vumela ushintsho olumnandi. Vele uthathe futhi uzithengele isembatho esingaphansi, i-lipstick noma ibhodlela lamafutha. Ufanelwe.

Futhi ekugcineni okubaluleke kakhulu, kodwa okungajabulisi kakhulu. Yeka ukuzisola! Uma isiguli sidinga ukujova umjovo obuhlungu, uyazi ngobuhlungu obusondelayo, kodwa usekulungele lokhu ukuze alulame. Yenza okufanayo.