Wedding - lo mkhosi uhle futhi ujabulise. Futhi injabulo ayizwa nje kuphela ngabashadayo abasha, kodwa futhi izihlobo zabo nabangane. Udinga ukucabanga ukuthi yini ongayinika emshadweni, umcimbi onjalo awukwazi ukushiywa ngaphandle kokunakwa. Ngendlela, nesipho somshado - ingabe kufanelekile?
Ingabe banikeza izipho zomshado?
Yiqiniso, ngaphambi kokucabanga ngalokho okufanele unikeze emshadweni, udinga ukunquma, kodwa wenze izipho nhlobo kulo mcimbi? Ngakolunye uhlangothi, lomshado unencazelo engokomoya, ngakho-ke akukhozinzuzo ezibonakalayo ezingalungile lapha. Kodwa ngakolunye uhlangothi, lomshado ubuye umshado, futhi ukunikeza izipho zomshado kuyisiko esihle. Enye into ukuthi isipho somshado sinikezwa ngaphandle kwesonto. Zonke ukuhalalisela kakhulu ngosuku lomshado futhi ukuhanjiswa kwezipho kufanele kushiywe ehholo ledili.
Yini ongayinika lomshado?
Ngokuvamile, umshado (kanye nemikhosi kanye nokugubha) kuqhutshwa ngosuku olufanayo, ngakho-ke izipho zinikezwa ngobumbano - emshadweni nomshado. Kulesi simo, akuvunyelwe ukwenza isipho esihlukile emshadweni bese uvala isipho esisodwa somshado. Okukuphela okuyoba ngabazali bomakoti nomkhwenyana - ukunikeza izimpawu zomshado umsebenzi wabo oqondile.
Kodwa futhi kwenzeka ukuthi abantu abaye baphila isikhathi esithile emshadweni, baphetha ngemithetho yezwe, bafisa ukuyibeka icala ngisho nangaphambi kwezulu. Kulesi simo, umshado uba iholide elihlukile, futhi lapha sekudingeka ukuthi ucabange ngesipho hhayi ngosuku lomshado, okungukuthi ngosuku lomshado.
Ngakho yini ongayinika emshadweni? Yebo, uma umcimbi unomqondo ongokomoya, kusho ukuthi izipho kufanele zithwale umyalezo ofanayo. Yingakho ngokuvamile izipho zomshado zithengwa esitolo sesonto. Nazi izinketho ezivame kakhulu zezipho zomshado.
- Icon. Yebo, umbhangqwana womshado unikezwa abazali, kodwa izivakashi zingabonisa njengesipho isithonjana, isibonelo, umndeni owodwa. Isithonjana esinjalo sibonisa uMama kaNkulunkulu, futhi emasimini kukhona izithombe zabangcwele abangcwele abangcwele. Ungaphinde unikeze isithonjana ngesithombe sikaPeter noFevronia - abanikazi bama-Orthodox bonke abathandi. Izimpawu ngokuvamile azijabulisi, kodwa ngoba ungenza isipho esinjalo vsykladchinu ngezihlobo nabangane balo mbhangqwana.
- Ungabonisa isipho esenziwe ngezandla zakho. Isibonelo, iphaneli enezithombe ezinhlokweni zesonto, ezihlotshiswe ngezandla zakho indwangu yetafula namaphinikidi. On the tablecloths ungafaka ama-initials wombhangqwana womshado kanye nosuku lomshado. Futhi ungenza imifanekiso - i-embroider ngebuhlalu noma uwele ubuso babangcwele.
- Ngokuvamile, izivakashi azitholi isipho kangcono kunesithonjana, futhi ngoba abantu abasha bamane begcwele izithombe ezihlukahlukene nemibala ehlukahlukene. Uma kukhona ukwesaba ukuthi emcimbini owenzayo, uzophinde uhlale isipho esivelele kakhulu. Nikeza isibani noma ishalofu ngenhlangano ye-iconostasis yasekhaya.
- Ungabethula abasha ngehlamvu legolide ebonisa abangcwele abanikazi bomshado womshado. Isipho esinjalo nezidingo ezingokomoya zibophezelekile, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo kubonakala kunhle futhi kuyigugu.
- IBhayibheli noma izincazelo zezimpilo zabangcwele abazondla umbhangqwana womshado nakho kungaba isipho esihle. Yiqiniso, kungcono ukunaka izipho zesipho zezincwadi ezinjalo-isipho ngokufanayo.
- Inguqulo enhle yesipho somshado yizithombe ezihlukahlukene ezithandweni zesonto.
- Uma unokungabaza ngokunikela ngemifanekiso, ama-bible kanye nezinye izimfanelo zenkolo - kungakhathaliseki ukuthi intsha izokwamukela izipho ezinjabulo, khetha into engathathi hlangothi. Isibonelo, i-albhamu yomndeni omusha. Masibe incwadi enhle abantu abasha abayozibhalela yona, begcwalisa izithombe namanothi ngezikhathi ezibaluleke kakhulu nezijabulisayo zokuphila komndeni wabo.