Abantu abaningi ngezinye izikhathi banamakhosikazi ahlukene. Futhi akuzona njalo ukuthi umphuphi ungumlandeli wale nkanyezi. Isizathu sokuba udumo uphuphe, futhi yimiphi imiphumela ongayilindela ephusheni elinjalo - inkinga ephikisanayo futhi incike kokubili komuntu ngokwakhe kanye nencwadi yephupho ayisebenzisayo. Phela, ukuchazwa kwephupho elifanayo ezincwadini ezahlukene zokuphupha kungaba okuhlukile. Lesi sihloko sizokutshela ukuthi yini amaphupho amadumo - umculi, umlingisi, noma omunye umuntu othandekayo.
Ukuchazwa kwamaphupho ahlukahlukene kanye nabahumushi
Ibhuku lephupho lesiNgisi embuzweni othi "Uyini umhlangano wephupho nomuntu odumile?" Izimpendulo ukuthi lowo ophuphayo, okokuqala, kufanele anake lokho inkanyezi ayibonayo kumuntu oyiphupho - ubuhle, njll. Mhlawumbe lokho okufisa ukukwenza, maduzane kube ngokoqobo.
Umhumushi we-dreaman psychoanalytic uthi lo mphupho uzenzele isithombe somuntu ofanelekayo, ukuba aqonde ngqo, umuntu wesilisa noma wesifazane. Futhi, iphupho elinjalo lingabonisa kumuntu isithombe yena ngokwakhe angathanda ukuzenza kuye.
Ibhuku lephupho likaCatherine the Great lithi umphuphi kufanele ahlanganyele engxoxweni enzima kakhulu nabaphathi bakhe. Umphumela wale ngxoxo uzoxhomeka ngqo kumacebo akho esikhathini esizayo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kungenzeka ukugibela ngokushesha futhi okusheshayo isiteji somsebenzi. Nakhu umhlangano wephupho nomuntu odumile, uma ugxila encwadini yephupho yomphathi. Futhi, iphupho elinjalo lingabonakalisa isimo sengqondo esibucayi kakhulu somuntu kuye nakwezungezile.
Ukuchazwa kwephupho lika-Akulina kuthatha iphupho elinjalo, njengesibonakaliso sokubonakala komuntu onamandla.
Kungani uphupha ukuthunjwa ngodumo?
Iphupho elinjalo lifanekisela ubunzima bokuphila obuhlobene nokuthatha umthwalo womunye umuntu. Noma kunjalo, ngeke abonakale, njengoba nje lo muntu kanye nokuphila kwakhe kubaluleke kakhulu kuwe.
Kodwa uma umuntu ebona iphupho ngokumanga futhi manje ezindla ngokuthi ukumangalisa ngodumo kuphupha, kungcono ukuthi uphephe futhi ulungele ukuwa okusheshayo kwamathemba omuntu. Futhi, iphupho elinjalo lingasho ukukhohlisa engxenyeni yothandekayo.
Kodwa-ke, into esemqoka kuleso simo akuyona ukuphoqa futhi uqondise imicabango yakho ibe ngumzila othakazelisayo futhi odingekayo. Futhi kuyoba nokuzizwa okuningi okungaqondakali nokungazi lutho ngeke kwenzeke.