Abantu abaningi, beqaphela ukuthi baye balahlekelwa futhi ngenhlanhla bayakwazi ukubhekana nayo, abafuni ngisho nokuzwa ukuthi ubani ongobuhlakani babo. Abantu abanjalo bangaqondakala: ukubhujiswa kuvame ukuholela emiphumeleni enzima kakhulu kuzo zonke izigaba zokuphila, umuntu oye wahlupheka ngezinkinga zobuthakathi akugcini nje ngokomzimba. Kodwa, kholwa kimi, umbuzo oqondile kakhulu ongazibuza kule simo ukuthi ungathola kanjani ukuthi ubani obangela umonakalo.
Kungani udinga ukwazi isitha ngomuntu?
Kungcono kakhulu ukuthi umhlukumezi wakho ungumuntu oseduze nawe, efihle ekhoneni bese ehlela uhlelo olusha lokususa. Uyamethemba - uyakukulimaza, ngokunjalo, awunamandla ekungazi kwakho, futhi unamandla onke ngolwazi.
Ngokuvamile, abantu abahlukunyezwayo abazange basebenze ngendlela abayifunayo bazoshaywa ngesikhatsi esilandelayo. Mhlawumbe, sebevele benza izinhlelo zokubhujiswa komndeni wakho, isifo noma ngisho nokufa kwezihlobo.
Sithemba, manje uqaphela ukuthi kubaluleke kangakanani ukuthi kubaluleke kangakanani ukucacisa ukuthi ubani obangela umonakalo.
Izimpawu zokuphangwa
I-algorithm yezenzo zakho kanje:
- Hlola ukuthi ngabe ungenzakele noma cha;
- ukubhekana nomonakalo;
- thola indlela yokubona lowo obangela umonakalo.
Ngakho, owokuqala - anqume ukuthi kukhona ubuciko. Sizoyiqonda, ukuqonda ukuthi umonakalo wenziwe.
Izimpawu ezilandelayo ezingathandeki ziyabonakala kubantu abathintekayo ngomphumela womlingo:
- endlini kwakukhona izinhlanzi, izintuthwane, amagundane, ngesikhathi esifanayo, omakhelwane babo ababa nomkhondo;
- unamabala aqoshiwe esikhumbeni sakho;
- awukwazi ukukhulelwa, futhi udokotela akakwazi ukuthola imbangela empilweni yakho;
- ukulibaziseka, ubuhlungu obungenangqondo esikhathini sokuya esikhathini;
- ukulahlekelwa kwesisindo esibukhali, noma, ngokuphambene, ukuzuza okuningi;
- awukwazi ukushada futhi udale ubuhlobo obuhlala njalo nomuntu;
- uyagula - uphathwa, uyagula futhi - uphathwa, kodwa izifo azibuyiselani, kodwa, ngokuphambene nalokho, zengezwa;
- izilwane ziyaduka kuwe;
- uphupha amaphupho nemimoya, abantu abafile;
- uma ubhapathiziwe, futhi ujwayele ukugqoka isiphambano emzimbeni wakho, uma lilimazekile, lilahleka, liba buthakathaka, likhulu, futhi ufuna ukulikhiphela.
Lapha, cishe kanjalo. Kodwa, yiqiniso, izimpawu zokwehla zingase zibe mkhulu kakhulu.
Isinyathelo sesibili ukunqoba inkohlakalo. Ungabuyela kumlumbi ochwepheshe. Kulesi simo, uzokwenzela wena nesinyathelo sesithathu - ukubalwa komenzi wobugebengu. Futhi uma ususa ukuzichitha ngokwakho, uzodinga izincomo zethu zokugcina - ukuthi ungabheka kanjani ukuthi ubani obangela umonakalo.
Sithola umhlukumezi
Ngenxa yalesi siko, uzodinga ipanishi ngamanzi ahlungiwe kanye ne-wax yemvelo (i-paraffini wax ayifanele).
Hlanganisa i-wax emanzini okugeza, bese uqala ukuwuthululela kancane emanzini aqhekekile nomswakama omncane. Ngokufanayo, tshela lokhu okulandelayo:
"Ngiyidlulisela emanzini, ngidlulisela igama lesitha sami."
Uma uqine umonakalo, ngokucacile isitha sizoboniswa ku-wax. Ungabona ubulili bomenzi wobugebengu:
- ngoba owesifazane bayizibalo zenyanga nembali;
- umuntu - i-rhombus, i-crow, isikwele.
Le ndlela ingasiza, unqume umsebenzi we-offender, imikhuba . Kunoma yikuphi, uma uqaphela ngokwanele, uzoqonda ukuthi ubani okhuluma ngamaphethini we-wax.
Buyisa okutholiwe
Ukuphendula kwakho kwemvelo kuyoba isifiso sokufunda ukuthi ungabuyisela kanjani ukukhwabanisa okwenziwe. Ukuze uthole umsebenzi wokugcina wokuqeda, uzodinga lokhu okulandelayo:
- inhliziyo yezilwane ezifile (mhlawumbe inhliziyo yenkukhu ethengwe emakethe);
- ameva ka hawthorn - ama-9 ama-pcs. (ebusika bangashintshwa ngezipikili ezincane);
- i-nail enkulu - ucezu olulodwa;
- ipuleti (ongayilahla kalula kamuva).
Okokuqala, faka inhliziyo epulatifheni bese uphonsa zonke izipikili ezingu-9 (ameva). Kulesi simo, ukutshala izimali zakho, intukuthelo, intukuthelo, isifiso sokubuyela esitheni sakho konke okutholiwe.
Bese uthi icebo:
"Ngimemeza owangiphatha kabi, othumele impango kimi!"
Gwema ukugcina, isikhali esikhulu.
Manje yakha umlilo (ungakwenzi esidlangalaleni) futhi ushise inhliziyo ngezipikili. Izinsalela zokushiswa kumele zingcwatshwe emhlabathini, endaweni "yokufa", ufunde amagama alandelayo:
"Yonke into enhle nenzondo yonke mayibuyele kuye owanilethele kimi."
Emva kwalokho, umhlukumezi wakho uzozama konke ukuhlangabezana nawe futhi akunike umonakalo emuva. Sincoma izinsuku ezimbalwa ezilandelayo ukuba sihlale ekhaya, hhayi ukubona noma ubani, futhi ungaboleki nanoma yini kunoma ubani.