Njengoba iqhawe le-movie elidumile lathi: "Ukuphila kufana ne-zebra: umdwebo omnyama, umdwebo omhlophe, bese umsila kanye ...". Kodwa-ke, uma usukhona esiteji se "black band", ngandlela-thile awuqinisekisi lokhu kuqhathaniswa.
Singakwazi ukulahlekelwa imisebenzi yethu, singakwazi ukuxabana nazo zonke izihlobo nabangane bethu, kodwa uma endlini yethu ihlala ikhona le ngqungquthela yenduduzo nothando, empeleni okuthiwa "ikhaya", ngokuqinisekile siyosinda sonke. Kodwa, kufanele ukwenze uma ukuqhuma kwenzeka ekhaya, ngoba lokhu kuyisihlungu kakhulu kumuntu. Ungaba kanjani, lapho uhlangene futhi ubi, futhi ungenakubekezelela? Ake sikhulume ngokuthi singasindisa kanjani umndeni, uma ubuqotho bawo bungaphansi kombuzo omkhulu, ngosizo lwemithandazo yokuthola imvume emndenini.
Umthandazo ovela emahlakalweni aseSt. Paraskeva
USt. Paraskeva wayehlala ekhulwini lesi-III e-Iconium (manje eyiGreece). Wazalwa emndenini onomusa, ngakho abazali bakhe bambiza ngokuthi iParaskeva - ngokuhumusha, kusho uLwesihlanu. Ukuhlonipha usuku lwezinkanuko zikaKristu, iParaskeva yakhula kakhulu kakhulu kuNkulunkulu, futhi yanquma ukunikeza isifungo sokungathembeki ukunikela impilo yakhe ekushumayeleni ukholo lukaKristu phakathi kwabeZizwe.
Ngalokhu wafa. AmaPagan abanjwe eParaskeva futhi anikela ukunikela ngomfanekiso wamaqaba ukushintshela inkululeko. Kodwa wenqaba isipho. Wahlushwa ngezipikili, eboshelwe esihlahleni, bese ekhanda ikhanda.
Kukholelwa ukuthi izithombe zikaMartyr Paraskeva zivikela indlu ekungezwani emndenini. Ngakho-ke, umkhuleko wezinhlamba emndenini kufanele ufundwe ngempela ngaphambi kwesithonjana sakhe kanye nekhandlela lesonto elikhanyisiwe.
Emthandazweni, cela ukuvikelwa komndeni, ngokuthumela umusa ovela kuNkulunkulu kubo bonke abathandekayo bakho, ngokusungula indlela yokuphila ekhaya.
Umthandazo wokulondolozwa komndeni u-Saint Matrona waseMoscow
I-Holy Matrona yaseMoscow ibhekwa njengenhlangano yezintandane nezintandane. Ikakhulukazi uyabakhathalela izingane, ngakho-ke kuyamukelwa ukumcela usizo ekukhuliseni kwabo.
UMatron uthandazela ukuthola umsebenzi nomuzi, umshado ophumelelayo. Futhi uthandazele ukulondolozwa komndeni, lapho kwenzeka ukuthi ukuhlukunyezwa kungabikho kwekhaya lomuntu (lo mbhangqwana uhlala nabazali bawo), izinkinga ezinganeni (imibono ehluke kakhulu ekukhuliseni), noma ubunzima emsebenzini womshadisi.
Ngaphambi kokuba ufunde umthandazo wokuqonda emndenini, uMatron udinga ukuletha umnikelo. Udinga ukondla umuntu ongenakhaya, umuntu ongenalutho, noma isilwane esilahlekile, inyoni ngesinye sokudla okulandelayo:
- isinkwa esimnyama;
- amakhukhi;
- umvini omisiwe;
- ama-walnuts;
- abaqaphi;
- uju;
- ufulawa;
- ushukela.
Ungakwazi futhi ukuletha ethempelini noma ukubeka phambi kwesithonjana iMatrona izindlu zezimbali - ama-chrysanthemums, ama-carnations, ama-lilacs.
Abangcwele bakaGuriy, uSamon no-Aviv
Lezi zingcweti ezingcwele zomndeni ojabulayo nomshado, bathandazela ukuthula emndenini. UGuriy noSamon babengabashumayeli abangamaKristu edolobheni lase-Edessa. Nokho, impilo yabo yawela ekubuseni kwabeZizwe. Abangane ababili babanjwa futhi banikezwa ukushintsha inkolo yabo, kodwa bobabili benqaba, okwakuqala ukuhlukunyezwa ngakho, bese behlukunyezwa.
Eminyakeni eminingi kamuva, umdikoni ongumKristu u-Aviv wabonakala edolobheni elifanayo. U-Emperor wasayina isimemezelo mayelana nokushisa kwakhe, futhi akazange afihlwe (ukuze angabangeli ukulimala kwabanye abantu abaseshayo), wavela phambi kwakhe wangena emlilweni ngomthandazo. Bathi isidumbu sakhe sithathwe emlonyeni ongasetshenziswanga.
Ithiphu
Kodwa, ngaphambi kokucela uNkulunkulu isimangaliso, cabanga ngalokho ongakwenza ngokwayo. Akudingekile ukuba ujabulele umusa kaMninimandla onke, isimangaliso singathunyelwa kuphela uma lo muntu ngokwakhe enza konke okusemandleni akhe.
Uma unenkinga nomyeni wakho, zama ukukhuluma naye (nje ungaxabisani futhi wenze isikhalazo). Akunakwenzeka ukukhuluma, umyeni uvale uqobo, zama ukuwuxosha. Wena eqinisweni uyazi, ukuthi uyathanda, yiziphi izindawo azizwa kahle, yiziphi izitsha eziletha kuye injabulo ekhethekile.
Lapho uNkulunkulu ebona imizamo yakho, ngokuqinisekile uyosiza ukuhlanganisa umphumela.
Umthandazo kuMartyr Paraskeva
Umthandazo ku-Saint Matron waseMoscow
Umthandazo kuGria oNgcwele, uSamon no-Aviv
