Ingabe ufuna ukwazi ukuthi indoda yakho ethandekayo ikuphatha kanjani, ingabe usaba nomuzwa onamandla ngawe? Ngokuqinisekile, wonke owesifazane angathanda ukwazi ukuthi imizwa yakhe ayizwa kanjani nokuthi unamandla kangakanani. Uma kukhona isifiso esinjalo, ingxenye ethile ibonakala ekufuneni kwesifazane, noma uma usola ukuthi kukhona into enhle kumuntu kuwe futhi ufuna ukukuthola konke, khona-ke ungasebenzisa indlela endala eqinisekisiwe, ejwayele ugogo, hhayi ngezwi lokuzwa. Ukuqagela ngesimo sengqondo somuntu othandekayo kuyindlela engcono kakhulu yokuthola konke ngosizo lomlingo.
Ukuqagela kangcono kumamephu.
Ukuqagela kumfana othandekayo
Ngakho-ke, ake sicabangele ngokuningiliziwe, njengokuqagela komuntu othandekayo, kufanele ubeke amabalazwe kahle nokuthi ungachaza kanjani futhi ukhethe incazelo yawo ngendlela efanele kakhulu.
Yiqiniso, kungcono ukusebenzisa i- taroting kumuntu othandekayo, kodwa uma ungenalo ithuba lokuthenga amakhadi we-tarot, kulungile, ungasebenzisa okujwayelekile. Khumbula iphuzu elilodwa elibalulekile, ngaphambi kokuthi uqagele: amakhadi kufanele abe amasha, atholakale kuphela, noma labo abaqagela kuphela. Ukudlala imidlalo eqhubekayo emdlalweni, amakhadi ngeke asebenzele leli bhizinisi. Kukhona ithuba lokuthi bazohlinzeka ngokubikezela okungalungile, ulwazi luzophambene nakancane.
Inguqulo elula futhi ezwakalayo yokukhulumela inhlanzi ibizwa ngokuthi "inkosi." Lapha sibeka amakhadi ngokwemigomo elandelayo:
- Uma ungapende ngendoda yakho, bese uthatha owesifazane wesibungu ephaketheni, kuzokufanisa nawe, le suti isebenza kumuntu. Uma uyingqamuzana ephelele yomphakathi nabathandekayo bakho, khona-ke phuma epakethe unkosikazi kanye nenkosi yesiphambano.
- Uma usuvele ubamba amakhadi owudinga ukubhula , ezandleni zakho, engqondweni noma ngokuzwakalayo, usho igama izikhathi ezimbalwa. Zama ukugxila kahle kuso.
- Into elandelayo okumelwe ukwenze ukugubha amakhadi amaningana atholiwe izikhathi ezimbalwa bese uwabeka phansi, ukuze ungaboni lapho ikhadi likhona khona.
- Okulandelayo, thatha iphakethe lamakhadi owakhipha kuwo okudingekayo, uphendule futhi unqume amanye amakhadi, ucabangisise umbuzo mayelana nobuhlobo bomuntu kuwe, noma omunye umbuzo mayelana nomuntu othandekayo, impendulo ongathanda ukwazi. Sika phansi amakhadi phansi phansi.
- Manje, ngaphandle kokungabaza, udwebe ikhadi lokuqala kusuka emgodini bese ulibeka phakathi kwamakhadi akho amabili ngaphambilini aphethwe, akhishwe futhi angavuli, kufanele ahlangane phansi.
- Manje, kusukela emgodini, udwebe amakhadi bese uwabeka efomeni evulekile ku-lady nkosi. Lapha kufanele ugweme ukuphinda, amakhadi afanayo, ngokubaluleka kwawo, akufanele asondele. Uma kunjalo, kufanele ususe lamakhadi owamukelekile bese uwashiya ngaphansi kwekhadi lokulala - kungaba yinkosi noma intombazane. Phinda lo msebenzi izikhathi ezimbili.
- Uma konke sekuvele kusakazekile, vula inkosi nenkosikazi futhi ubone ukuthi yimaphi amakhadi aseduze nabo, futhi yiziphi ezikude.
- Ikhadi olikhiphe lona okokuqala, ngemva kokuba uqale ukugubha umkhumbi, futhi ubeke phakathi kwamakhadi akho, umelela isithiyo esisebudlelwaneni bakho.
Amakhadi eduze kwendodakazi nenkosi abonisa ukuthi iyini.
Okushoyo kanje:
- I-6-ka isho ukuhamba, ukuhlukaniswa, ibanga elide;
- 7-kubonisa ukuthuthukiswa kobudlelwane bakho nomuntu othandekayo;
- U-8-ka uthi lo muntu kufanele ube nosuku,
noma ingxoxo esondelene kakhulu; - I-9-ka ibonisa ukuguqulwa kokusondelana;
- 10-ka - isibonakaliso somuntu siqu komunye nomunye;
- UJack - wehla lapho kwenzeka ukuxabana;
- Le ndoda ingumncintiswano ongaba khona;
- Inkosi iphuma lapho indoda ikuphatha njengomngane obalulekile;
- I-Ace ibonisa ukuxhumana okuqinile phakathi kwabathandi ababili.