Ezweni lanamuhla, isimo sengqondo sokubhekana nesimo sezingokomoya sinengqondo. Abaningi abakholelwa ukuthi isoso ku-saucer sína futhi ukuthi ngosizo lwakhe ungaxhumana ngempela nemimoya. Empeleni, wonke umuntu unelungelo lomqondo wakhe, kodwa kufanele kucatshangelwe ukuthi isimiso sezinto ezingokomoya siwumsebenzi onzima futhi sidinga ukulungiswa okukhethekile.
Indlela yokuqhuba inhlanhla ngesoso ngokushaya umoya?
Isikhathi esingokomoya singenziwa ngokusebenzisa ibhodi ekhethekile, kodwa kukhona inketho yebhajethi, okuzoxoxwa ngakho ngokuningiliziwe. Ukuqhuba umkhuba, kunconywa ukuthi usebenzise isoso esisha esenziwe nge-porcelain. Lezi slide ezibonakalayo kahle kunoma iyiphi indawo. Kubalulekile ukuthi i-saucer ihlanzeke, imhlophe futhi ingabi nomdwebo. Ngemuva kokuthola ipuleti edingekayo, yiphendule futhi eceleni komunye umkhawulo udwebe i-wand eyokusebenza njengesikhombisi. Ukwenza indawo yebhodi, thatha iphepha elikhulu nephoyinti elizwelayo. Engqondweni, hlukanisa iphepha ngecala bese ubhala izinhlamvu zama-alphabet ku-semicircle phezulu. Bhala amagama athi "yebo" no "cha" ukusuka enhlangothini elungile nangakwesobunxele. Esikhathini esingaphansi, godu kumbuthano wesibhakela, bhala iinomboro ezi-0 ukuya ku-9, namagama athi "Sawubona" nethi "Farewell" ngakwesokudla nangakwesobunxele. Kubalulekile ukwenza konke ngokunembile nangaphandle kwamaphutha, ngaphandle kwalokho ukubhula kungenzeki.
Ukuhlukaniswa ngama-saucers kufanele kwenziwe okungenani abantu ababili. Udinga ukuhlala etafuleni phambi kweshidi elilungiselelwe ne-saucer. Okulandelayo ukukhanyisa amakhandlela amathathu esonto bese uvala ukukhanya. Esinye isimo esibalulekile ukuvula iwindi ekamelweni ukuze umoya ungene ekamelweni. Kubalulekile ukuthi umuntu oyedwa abephethe futhi abuze imibuzo, ngokuvamile, esebenza nomoya. Lapho zonke izinyathelo zokulungiselela zithathwe, ungaqhubeka nokukhuluma ngenhlanhla. Thatha ezandleni ze-saucer, ubambe isikhathi okwesikhashana futhi ngemuva kokubiza ngokucacile umoya. Kungcono ukuxhumana nezihlobo zamuva. Ngitshele izikhathi ezimbalwa: "Woza (igama)." Bese ufake i-saucer maphakathi neqabunga futhi bonke abahlanganyeli kufanele bakuthinte kalula. Ngemuva kwalokho ungaqhubeka nemibuto. Into yokuqala okufanele uyenze ukubuza ukuthi umoya ufikile. Uma impendulo ingu-yebo, sicela usho u-hello futhi emva kwesenzo sokubuya ungabuza imibuzo. Abaningi banesithakazelo sokuthi kungani i-saucer ihamba lapho ihlukanisa. Uma konke kwenziwa kahle, khona-ke kuzokwenza amandla angabonakali, okuyihambisa endaweni yayo. Kukhona nombono wokuthi laba bantu bathuthela i-saucer, kodwa bengakwazi lutho. Lapho zonke izimpendulo zitholwa, qiniseka ukuthi ubonga umoya futhi uthi ungayitholi.
Ukuqagela ngesitsha sesiliva kunemithetho yayo, okumele kulandelwe:
- Yiphathe ngokungathí sina iseshini engokomoya. Uma kungenjalo, akukho lutho olukwazi ukuphuma noma umoya uzovele uthukuthele, ongabangela izinkinga ezihlukahlukene esikhathini esizayo.
- Phakathi neseshini, umuntu oyedwa kuphela okufanele akhulume - umethuli, abanye badinga ukugcina ukuthula.
- Egumbini lapho kudlula khona ukuthunjwa, kuyadingeka ukuba unqamule yonke imishini kagesi, ngoba iyesabisa imimoya.
- Uma ubuza umbuzo, umuntu kufanele acabange
kuphela ngaye futhi ukholelwa ekutholeni impendulo eqotho. - Ngesikhathi seseshini, akekho okufanele aphule izandla zakhe kumshukela.
- Qinisekisa ukucacisa umoya ukuthi ungubani, ngoba inhlangano ehluke ngokuphelele ingavela ukuxhumana.
- Ungesabi, kubalulekile ukuphatha le nqubo futhi kungenjalo kungabonakali umoya wakho ebuthakathakeni, ngoba kungathatha indawo kuphela, kodwa kuwe.
- Uma i-saucer iphuka ngokuzumayo-lesi isibonakaliso esibi, inkinga ethembisayo.
Ekuphetheni, ngifuna ukusho ukuthi akufanele uqale ukuqagela, uma ungabaza noma wesaba, ngoba ukuxhumana namabutho angabonakali kuyinto eyingozi kakhulu.