Kwenzeka ukuthi ingane ibonisa umsebenzi okwandisiwe emini futhi ayikwazi ukuzola phansi kusihlwa. Abazali banzima ukubeka umntwana olele elele. Ukulala okungenasiphelo futhi ubunzima bokulala bathatha amandla amaningi hhayi kuphela kumntwana, kodwa futhi kubazali. Futhi ngezinye izikhathi bayagxila emcabangweni wokunikeza ingane ukulala amaphilisi ukuze ingane ilele ngokushesha. Kodwa-ke, kufanelekile ukukhumbula imiphumela engenzeka ngemuva kokusebenzisa izinyathelo ezinzima kangaka.
Ingabe izingane zinganikeza amaphilisi okulala?
Njengamaphilisi abuthongo abancane nezinsana ezingaphansi konyaka owodwa, azikhuthazwa ukuthi zisebenzise ngenxa yemiphumela ehlukahlukene:
- kungenzeka ukuphazamisa izigaba zokulala, ukushintsha kwabo;
- ngosuku olulandelayo ingane ingase ibone ukuzithemba, ukunganakwa, ukungafuni ukudlala;
- izidakamizwa ezithandwayo zezingane ziyakwazi ukubangela ukuxhomeka kwezidakamizwa kwengane, okuyinto enzima kakhulu ukulwa nayo kunokubeka umntwana embhedeni.
Kumele kukhunjulwe ukuthi, okokuqala, kubalulekile ukubheka imbangela yokuphazamiseka kokulala, kungani ingane ingalali. Futhi izizathu zingahluka:
- ingane ayizange ikwazi ukuphonsa amandla okuqoqa usuku futhi izama ukuyenza kusihlwa ngaphambi kokulala;
- okuhlangenwe nakho komntwana okungahambi kahle ngesikhathi sokulala (isibonelo, ikamelo ligcwele);
- ingane isondelene kakhulu futhi inezinkinga ezingokomzwelo ngokweqile;
- ukushintsha indawo yokuhlala, imvelo;
- izifo ezithintekayo, ngokuvamile - ukuba esibhedlela ukwelashwa kubangela ukuphazamiseka kokulala ekhaya;
- izimo ezicindezelayo (isibonelo, ukuzivumelanisa enkulisa, uhambo lokuqala esikoleni);
- izingxabano phakathi kwabazali.
Kodwa isizathu esivame kakhulu sokuthola umkhumbi ukulala embhedeni umzamo womntwana wokuheha umuntu wakhe. Ngemuva kwalokho, uma ethatha isikhathi eside ukulala, khona-ke konke kunakhokhelwa abazali bakhe kuphela, okwakungenalo ingane emini. Ngakho, uzama ukukhokhela ukunakekelwa kwabazali.
Yiziphi izidakamizwa engingayisebenzisa ukuze ngilale embhedeni?
Njengengqondo, izingane zinganikezwa i-tincture ye-motherwort noma i-hawthorn, i-valerian (kuphela kumathebulethi, kusukela efomini, i-valerian yotshwala), i-dramina, i-valium, i-relanium. Kukhona nemikhiqizo yezingane ezikhethekile: Bayu-Bai, iZaychonok. Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi azikho amaphilisi okulala ezinganeni, ungasebenzisa kuphela ukuphumula. Kusobala ukuthi ngezinye izikhathi abazali bangathanda ukusebenzisa lezi zidakamizwa ukuba ziphumule ngokushesha ingane bese zimbeka. Nokho, ungakhohlwa lokho
- ukulala phezu kwezimbambo, uma kuziwa kosana;
- tshela indaba yebusuku;
- xoxa ebumnyameni.
Ukunakekelwa kuphela kubazali, ukusekelwa kwabo nothando lwabo kungasiza ingane ilele endaweni enokuthula.