Umthetho udinga abazali abahlukanisile ukuba balondoloze izingane zabo kuze kube yilapho bekhulile ngokuvumelana. Uma isivumelwano esinjalo singenakufinyelelwa, ngesinqumo senkantolo, imali ethile yokugcinwa kwengane yabo encane igcinwa emholweni owodwa noma bobabili abazali. Ukugcinwa kwezinto ezihambisanayo kungenziwa futhi ngesivumelwano sokuzithandela samaqembu. Ukwenqaba kwe-alimony akungekho emthethweni, njengoba kuphulwa amalungelo abantwana abangaphansi. Kodwa ngokusemthethweni, ukwenqaba ukukhipha imithi kusengenzeka.
Indlela yokufaka isicelo sokukhansela ukuphazamisa?
Okokuqala, uma ungafuni ukwamukela ukuphazamiseka, ungafaki enkantolo futhi ungangeni esivumelwaneni sokuzithandela ekubuyiseleni kwabo. Kodwa kufanele ukhumbule ukuthi uma, uma uhlola izimo zokuboshwa kwabafana yi-ejensi yokulondoloza, kuvela ukuthi udinga okuthile, futhi awutholi ukuhambisana, khona-ke ungaphoqeleka ukuba ufake isicelo sokuthola ukubuyiswa kwe-alimony.
Uma usenqume ukungena esivumelwaneni sokuzithandela ukwenqaba ukulandelana, ungafaka isicelo ku-notary futhi uthole ukuthi ungabhala kanjani ukuzithandela kokuzikhethela kwe-alimony. Esikhathini sohlelo lokusebenza, bonisa ukuthi awudingi ukwesekwa kwezimali futhi ungakwazi ukusekela ingane ngokwakho. Qinisekisa ukuthi ufake igama lakho, isibongo, i-patronymic, kanye negama lokugcina, igama lokuqala kanye nomuntu ohlonishwayo kummangalelwa kanye nezidingo zakhe.
Uma ukukhokhelwa kwe-alimony kwenziwa yisinqumo senkantolo, kufanele usebenzise isicelo se-executive (noma umsizi wesikhonzi senkantolo) bese ubhala isitatimende sokuthi ufuna ukumisa izinyathelo zokuphoqelela, okubonisa izizathu zokuqedwa okunjalo kanye nesikhashana sokumiswa uma ukwenqaba ukuthola umlinganiso kungokwengqayizivele.
Ngemvume yabaphathi bokunakekela, abazali banelungelo lokuphetha isivumelwano sokunqotshwa kwamalungelo okubambisana, ngenkathi bebhalisa kahle isihloko somntwana esakhiweni.
Khumbula ukuthi ukwenqaba komama we-alimony kungaqedwa ngokusebenzisa isitatimende esiphindaphindiwe mayelana nokubuyiselwa kwabo.
Uma usungula ukulahla kokungafani, ngaleyo ndlela uphula umthetho futhi ungase ulahlekelwe amalungelo omzali enganeni encane. Icala lingaya ngqo ekuvivinyweni kokuvuma ngokuzithandela kokunye, ngakho-ke, ngaphambi kokuthatha isinyathelo esinjalo, konke kufanele kucatshangwe kahle futhi kulinganiswe. Futhi khumbula ukuthi uma wenqaba ukuphikisa, kufanele kuqala, ungacabangi ngawe, kodwa mayelana nomntanakho, ozodinga imali kusasa ukuze aphumule, ukutadisha, nokuhlala.