Ekuphileni kwangempela, maqondana nezingane ezincane, azizwa nje kuphela imizwa yothando nothando, kodwa futhi nokukhathazeka, futhi ngezinye izikhathi ngisho nokucasuka. Amaphupho lapho ingane encane ibhekwa nayo inezincazelo eziningi. Yingakho ukuhumusha kuyadingeka ukuzama ukukhumbula ezinye imininingwane zesakhiwo esizibonayo, kanye nomthwalo womzwelo. Ngokuvamile, cabangela ukuthi ingane ibukeka kanjani, ukuthi yena nawe wenza futhi wazizwa. Konke lokhu kwenza kube lula ukuthola incazelo enembile nakweqiniso.
Kungani ingane encane iphupha?
Izincwadi eziningi zokuphupha ziyavuma ukuthi iphupho elinjalo lihle. Esikhathini esizayo esiseduze, udinga ukugxila kuzo zonke izikhwepha zakho futhi ukholwe emphumela omuhle, kuphela kulokhu ungathembela ekuqalisweni komkhulelwe. Uma umfana omncane ebonakala ephusheni, kuyinhlangano yezinguquko ezisezingeni lezinto ezibonakalayo. Ikakhulukazi le ncazelo ingokoqobo, uma iphupho lalibusuku kusukela ngoLwesine kuya kuLwesihlanu. Kwenye yezincwadi zokuphupha, umfana omncane uyisimo sezinkinga nezisulu ezihlukahlukene. Ukuze uphuze ingane encane njengentombazane, ungalindela izinguquko ohlelweni lomzwelo. Kukhona nolwazi lokuthi iphupho elinjalo lithembisa ukulahlekelwa.
Ukusheshisa nomntwana ephusheni kusho ukuthi maduzane kuzodingeka uhlanganyele emsebenzini womphakathi, okuzophela ekugcineni ngeke ulethe ukwaneliseka kokuziphatha kuphela, kodwa futhi kanye nenzuzo yezinto ezibonakalayo. Kwabesifazane abasebasha, leli phupho liwuphawu lokukhohlisa okungathí sina. Iphupho lapho ingane encane yayisesandleni sayo iyisixwayiso sezinkinga ekusetshenzisweni kwezinhlelo. Noma kunjalo kungaba isibonakaliso sokuthi maduzane kuzokwenzeka ukuthola umsebenzi omuhle ngenkokhelo ephezulu. Kumantombazane, indaba enjalo ithembisa ukukhulelwa. Uma kwakufanele ugcine ingane egulayo esandleni sakho - lokhu kuyimpawu embi, ukubikezela okuhlangenwe nakho okuqinile ngokomzwelo. Uma ingane ingumfokazi, leli phupho lingabhekwa njengesixwayiso abanye abantu abazofuna ukusizakala ngokuthembela kwakho.
Ngomunye owesifazane ophethe iphupho lomntombazane omdala mayelana nengane encane, kuyinkimbinkimbi yezinkinga ezimnandi, cishe, maduzane kuyoba nomhlangano nabadlali bezemidlalo. Uma ngabe ingane isesitulo sabakhubazekile - lokhu kuyisibonakaliso esibonisa ukuba khona kwabangane abathembekile abazosiza, nganoma yisiphi isikhathi, futhi banikeza iseluleko esihle. Iphupho, lapho umphuphi ngokwakhe egibele ingane egumbini lokuhamba, kuyinto ehamba phambili yokuhamba okuthakazelisayo. Ngangifisa ukuthi kufanele ngibhukuze izingane ezincane, ngakho ungakhathazeki, ngoba ezikhathini ezinzima kuzokwenza isinqumo esifanele. Ngisho nephupho elinjalo lingabonisa ukukhohlisa. Intombazane ehamba phambili iprofeta izinkinga kanye nokukhashelwa kwabantu abakuzungezile. Umbono ebusuku, lapho umntwana omncane ekhala khona, uthembisa izinkinga ezincane nezinkathazo. Uma umntwana eqala ukuhamba ephusheni, kuyincoma ukuthi akufanele ulalele abanye abantu esikhathini esizayo esiseduze.
Kwabesifazane, umbono wesibindi, owamanga ngalo umntwana, ubonisa ukuthi kuzokwazi ukugcina injabulo nentsha iminyaka eminingi. Uma ingane encane iphupha ngokwayo, lokhu kuyisibonakaliso sokuthi kuzomelwe kwenziwe imizamo eminingi yokunqoba zonke izinkinga. Umbono ebusuku, lapho ingane encane efile ibonakala khona, ithembisa ukuqiniswa kwezindaba, ezixhunyaniswe nesigaba sendawo. Enye enye incwadi yokuphupha, indaba enjalo isixwayiso sokuthi akufanele wenze izinqumo zokuhlaselwa, ngoba lokhu kungabangela izinkinga eziningi.