Cishe amaphesenti ayisishiyagalolunye emiphakathi yezwe lethu isokunxele. Manje sebebaphatha ngokuthula esikoleni noma emsebenzini, kodwa kunezikhathi lapho abantu abanjalo babhekwa bengenacala futhi becindezelwe kakhulu, bengavumeli ukuba baphile ngokuthula. Akumangazi ukuthi abashiya bokhohlo baqala ukuhlanganisa futhi bahlele imibhikisho yangempela. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, lokhu kwaholela ekwamukeleni le nkinga ezingeni lomhlaba kanye nokuvela kosuku lomhlaba wonke lwabantu basekhohlo.
Abantu abaningi abakhulu babambe ipeni noma ipensela ngakwesokunxele sabo. UNapoleon onqobayo omkhulu, osombusazwe uChurchill, umqambi uMoart nabanye abaningi abanekhono abanesandla. Abaningi abafunda ezikoleni zaseSoviet bakhumbula ukuthi baphoqeleka kanjani izingane ezazizama ukubhala ngesandla sabo sokunxele ukuze zivuselelwe. Abafundisi abathukuthele baze babashaye nombusi ngeminwe yabo. Kodwa lezi zimbali. Ephakathi, kunezinkolelo ukuthi abantu abanjalo bahlotshaniswa noDeveli. Kungani abantu behlanganyela emalungwini nasekupheleni? Abanye ochwepheshe babiza ukulinganisa ngokweqile kwe-testosterone, okuyinto ingane etholakele kumama, abanye basolwa ngokuzalwa kuzo zonke izinto. Kodwa ukuhlukunyezwa kwesandla sokunene esitholakale ebuntwaneni kungabangela nokuthi umuntu uhlezi kancane kancane ngakwesokunxele.
Ngesinye isikhathi, ukucindezelwa kwesokunxele kwenezela ekubhikeni okukhulu. Ngo-1980, ukukhishwa ngokungalungile kwephoyisa laseMelika uFranklin Wybourne kwaholela ekubonisweni kwangempela kwemibhikisho. Umfana wayezama ukugqoka i-holster ngakwesobunxele, okwakuvinjelwe ngokuqinile yile mqulu. Futhi ngo-Agasti 13, 1992, iSuku LwaseMhlabeni Wonke lwabaxhasi Bokungakwesokunxele lwagubha okokuqala. Abaqalayo balo mbono babengabaseBrithani, abasungula khona iqembu labo elisemthethweni. Usuku lokuqala lwezishoshovu ezisekhohlo lathi baphathe emigwaqweni ngamaphosta lapho zonke izidingo zabo zabhalwa khona. Babesekelwa yizibalo eziningi zomphakathi, kuhlanganise nabantu abaningi abashiya.
Nakuba kungabikho ubandlululo olunjalo manje, kodwa empilweni yansuku zonke abashiywe kwesokunxele bahlangabezana nokuphazamiseka okuningi. Cishe zonke izibambo ezifakwe eminyango zifakwe ngendlela yokuthi kulula ukuzisebenzisela kuphela abaphethe kahle. Okufanayo kungashiwo ngemishini eminingi yasendlini - iziqandisini, ama- lashishihishi nemishini yokuhlanza , lapho izinkinobho zitholakala khona ukuze kube lula kwabanikazi bokunene. Kumele bahluke ukuwasebenzisa. Abantu abayizigidi eziyizinkulungwane ezingamakhulu ayisihlanu abakhathazekile. Ukunyakaza okungokwemvelo kubangela ukucindezeleka kokukhathazeka kwabanye abantu. Kunemishini eminingi yokusebenzisa abantu abanjalo ngokungathandeki kakhulu. Ama-nuances anjalo angadala ngisho nokulimala emsebenzini. Usuku lwesandla sokungakwesokunxele e-England lwasungulwa ukuze luvule amehlo abanye abantu kuzo zonke lezi zinkinga. Manje konke kwaqala ukuhamba kancane kusukela ekufeni. Baqala ukukhiqiza izikhali, amagundane wekhompiyutha. Iphatha kanye namanye amadivayisi afanelekile. Kodwa ngenkathi le mikhiqizo isabiza kakhulu kunezihlobo zayo ezijwayelekile.
Ingabe kunzima ukushiya kwesokunxele?
Into eyinhloko yukuthi ebuntwaneni abaphathi basobunxele abakwazi ukuhlekwa usulu noma ukubandlululwa. Ukuhlelwa ngokweqile ukuzama ukubuyisela izingane, okungalimaza ingqondo yabo. Chaza umntwana ukuthi ufana nabo bonke ontanga futhi akudingeki abe namahloni. Ungabanika isibonelo salokho okuphumelele okuye kwafezwa ngamaphesenti amaningi adumile ekuphileni. Phela, abaningi abaqeqeshi bezemidlalo baze baphuphe nokuba nomuntu onjalo eqenjini labo. Konke lokhu kungenxa yokuthi abanye abantu abakhathazekile ngokumelene nabo nokubhola noma ukudlala. U-Leo Tolstoy, u-Chaplin noLeonardo da Vinci kanye nezinye izici eziningi zazibuye zisekhohlo. Abanye ososayensi bathi lokhu kuyiqiniso lokuthi baye bathuthukisa kangcono izwe elifanele lobuchopho.
Ebusuku Lomhlaba Owesobunxele, izishoshovu zizama ukuheha abanye abantu ukuthi baqonde izinkinga ezingamaphesenti angaba ngu-10 abantu bakuleli zwe. Amalungu eqembu laseBrithani abiza abanye abantu ukuba bazame ukusebenzisa kuphela isandla sokunxele usuku olulodwa: ukubhala, ukudla, ukusika imifino, ukusebenzisa amathuluzi, ukudlala imidlalo yezemidlalo noma ukudlala izinsimbi zomculo. Mhlawumbe kuzobasiza baqonde izinkinga ezisele. Kakade emazweni athile kunezitolo lapho baqala ukuthengisa izinto zasendlini namathuluzi afaneleke kubantu abashiya. Ngakho-ke, inkinga ishintshile endaweni, futhi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi konke kuzoshintsha ukuze kube ngcono.