Ukuze uthole ukuphumula okuhle ngemuva kosuku olukhiqizayo nolomatasa, umuntu udinga ukulala okugcwele. Phela, kubalulekile ukwenza imisebenzi ejwayelekile yansuku zonke nempilo ngokujwayelekile. Ngaphandle kwephupho ngokwalo, izakhi eziyinhloko zeholide elihle yindawo yokuphumula, umbhede, ukulala futhi, empeleni, indawo lapho umuntu elele khona.
Umphakathi ozungezile lo muntu uhlale ucabanga ngemithetho nemibonakalo ehlukahlukene, bahlobana ukuthi kubalulekile kanjani ukufaka ifenisha ekamelweni lokulala, kusuka kwiphi impahla yokulala yelineni okufanele yenziwe ... kodwa kuthiwani ngesibonakaliso esivamile ukuthi awukwazi ukulala ngezinyawo zakho emnyango? Kungani kuphakama izinkolelo ezinjalo, futhi zingakwazi ukuthonya ukuqonda komuntu nezenzo zakhe?
Ngingalala ngezinyawo zami emnyango?
Ingxenye ebalulekile yabantu abathiwa kubi ukulala ngezinyawo zabo emnyango. Kodwa kungani kuvinjelwe? Impendulo evame kakhulu ukuthi abafileyo baqhutshwa phambili ngezinyawo zabo. Ake sizame ukuqonda.
Kusukela ezikhathini zasendulo, umnyango ubhekwa njengengosi kwelinye izwe. Kuyaziwa ukuthi ngesikhathi lapho umzimba ulele, umphefumulo ushiya. Angakwazi ukuzungeza ekamelweni, noma ahambe ngaphandle kwendlu. Uma ulala ngezinyawo zakho emnyango, khona-ke umphefumulo ungalahleka futhi ungabuyeli emzimbeni nhlobo, ngoba imimoya yobumnyama ingamhudulela embusweni wakhe.
Izingibe ezazibekwe eceleni kweminyango yasendulo zaziyisibonakaliso esicacile sokuthi umuntu ufuna ukushiya ikhaya lakhe naleli zwe. Ngokuvamile, ekwelapheni, ukufa kuqoshiwe ngesikhathi sokulala, kubizwa ngokuthi "ukufa ngokungazelelwe kwesifo" . Umuntu umane nje ashiye leli zwe ngenkathi elele, ngoba asikho isizathu esicacile.
Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi akufanelekile ukuhamba ngaleyo ndlela. Amandla amnyama, njengophawu oluphatha njengendlela yokuhamba, futhi asuse umphefumulo wokuphumula, awuthumele kwelinye izwe. Futhi akunakwenzeka ukubuyela lapho.
Njengoba kwakhiwa amadlozi, abafile endlini baqhutshwa phambili ngezinyawo zabo. Uma ukufa sekuphumile kakade umoya ngaphandle komzimba, akanakho okunye okumele akwenze endlini. Umgwaqo wonke oholela emangcwabeni, uhlobo lomzila lapho oshonile eqhutshwa khona, kanye nezinyawo phambili, okufanekisela lokhu: "Yena uhamba, sihamba kuphela".
"Cha" kokubi, izifo nokuthakatha
Umkhondo wezizukulwane zangaphambilini ushiye umshicileli esimweni samanje. Iminyango yayihlale ibaluleke ngokukhethekile ezindabeni noma ezinkolelweni. Sekuyisikhathi eside sekukhohliswa ukuthi imimoya yabakhokho ihlala emnyango wendlu. Bahle ngokwabo, kodwa abangaphandle babona kabi. Kungani kungenalutho, indoda yendoda yakhe esanda kuyenza, inesibopho sokudlulisa emngceleni, kubonisa lokhu, ukuxhunywa kwakhe nomndeni.
Ngisho noma ungaqiniseki ukuthi ungakwazi ukulala nezinyawo zakho emnyango, wazi ukuthi uma uvula izinyawo zakho lapho, umuntu ulahlekelwa amandla. Uma lokhu kwenzeka ngaso sonke isikhathi, khona-ke kunciphise amandla omzimba, amakhono engqondo. Kungase kube nezifo ukuthi, ngenye indlela noma enye, izothinta
Ukulala noma ukwesaba?
Ungakwazi yini ukuhamba phambili ngezinyawo zakho emnyango, wonke umuntu azikhethele yena. Kodwa uma, ezingeni elingenakuqondisisa, umzimba awuphumuli, ngenxa yobandlululo besaba , ukudweba izithunzi nezimpumputhe emnyango, umphumela wephupho elinjalo uzoba odumazayo.
Inketho engaqondakali yindawo yombhede ngaphakathi egumbini, kude ukusuka eminyango. Lapho ukhetha ngokukhethekile ukuthi ungabi nawo, futhi amamitha ayizigcawu acindezela, kubalulekile ukuthenga umbhede nge-back back. Lokhu kuzokwenza inkohliso yokuvikela. Futhi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uthatha isikhundla, umqondo wokuthembeka ngeke ushiye.
Izinzwa eziqinile kuphela nokungakholwa kumpawu kuzovumela umuntu ukuba alale kunoma yisiphi isikhundla.