Ukuze wonke umuntu abe nokuthula, kufanelekile ukuthi ukukhala ingane ngesikhathi sokugeza, nangemva kokugeza, ikakhulukazi ezinyangeni eziyisithupha zokuqala - isimo sivame kakhulu, futhi akufanele ukwesabe. Ingane izokhula futhi konke kuzoxazululwa ngokwayo.
Umntwana ukhala emva kokugeza - kungani lokhu kwenzeka?
- Izingane ezisanda kuzalwa zikhala njalo emva kokugeza , lapho abazali abangenalwazi ngokwabo besaba le nqubo. Ukungaqiniseki kudluliselwa emntwaneni futhi kuvela umbuthano ononya - lapho umntwana ekhala kakhulu, abazali abaningi bahlupha.
- Isizathu esiyinhloko sokukhala emva kokugeza kulambile. Yiqiniso, akekho ozogeza umntwana ngemuva kokudla futhi, njengoba umthetho, ukugeza kuhamba ngaphambi kokudla kokuhlwa kanye nokulala. Ukulamba komntwana osanda kuzalwa akuveli kancane kancane, kubonakala ngesikhathi esisodwa futhi nje ingane engumama gay ngomzuzu kakade idinga eyakhe ngokweqile futhi ayitholi kuze kube yilapho ithola.
- Isizathu sesibili esenza umntwana akhale emva kokugeza kungukuthi emanzini afudumele uyabuyisa futhi uyakuthanda lesi simo. Abanye baze balele ebhodweni. Kodwa ngokuzumayo le idyll iphukile, ikhishwa emanzini afudumele futhi idluliselwe ekamelweni elipholile, futhi le mehluko yokushisa ayiyithandi ingane nhlobo.
- Ingane ifuna ukulala nokulimaza cishe njalo ngaphambi kokulala. Uma lesi sikhathi lapho ekhathele, sibhekene nehora lokugeza, khona-ke amathuba okuba ngemva kokuphela kwenqubo yamanzi ingane izokhipha ikhonsathi futhi ngeke iphumule ize ilele.
- Mhlawumbe ngesikhathi sokugeza okokuqala, ngesikhathi sokudonsa umntwana ngaphandle kokugeza, kwakukhona isimo esingathandeki futhi ingane yayethuka . Esikhathini esizayo, uzocabangela ngokucophelela ukulindela ukuphindaphinda nokukhala.
Kuthiwani uma ingane ikhala emva kokugeza?
Le ndlela isebenza kahle lapho umntwana engagqoke ngokushesha ngemva kokukhipha ebhodini, futhi isikhathi esithile siboshwe ithawula elihluthayo. Ihlisa umntwana, kanye nokuba khona komuntu oseduze.
Ngokuvamile umntwana uyakhala ngemva kokugeza ngesikhathi esithile sosuku - ikakhulukazi kusihlwa. Lokhu kusho ukuthi inqubo kumele idluliselwe ekuseni noma ntambama.