Abanamahloni kwengane eneminyaka emithathu ubudala - izeluleko zengqondo kwengqondo

Ukukhulisa ingane akuyona indlela elula futhi elula kakhulu, efana nokuxazululwa kwe-puzzle. Ngakho-ke, abazali abazi ukuthi kufanele benzeni uma ingane ineminyaka engu-3 ubudala futhi ihlale iqhuma. Eqinisweni, iningi lamama nobaba bawela kunoma yikuphi ukuqhuma, noma baqala ukuziphatha kabi. Kokubili kungalungile, ngakho-ke sizokhokha ngokukhethekile le nkinga yengqondo.

Izincoma zengcweti mayelana nabahlaziyi kule minyaka

Lapho ingane yakho ineminyaka engama-3 engavamile, iseluleko somqondo wezengqondo siyoba sesilungile. Phakathi kwezizathu zalokhu kuziphatha yilokhu okulandelayo:

• umzamo wokuheha abazali;
• ukuzikhukhumeza okungenakuqonda - ingane ifuna ukufeza okufunayo, isibonelo, ithoyizi entsha noma uhambo oluya e-zoo;
• ukungabi nokulala;
• impilo embi ngesikhathi sokugula noma ehambisana nokushisa nokubandayo;
• ukungakwazi ukuveza ukunganeliseki ngamagama;
• izijeziso eziningi noma ukubonakaliswa kwe- hyperope.

Ngesinye isikhathi amahloni amakhulu emntwaneni weminyaka emithathu abangela ukwesaba futhi awukwazi ukuthi ukwenze. Okokuqala, thatha umoya ojulile futhi njalo uzame izindlela ezilandelayo ukulungisa isimo:

1. Zama ukuvimbela ama-hysteric kuze kube sekugcineni. Ukuze wenze lokhu, i-crumb kufanele iphazamiseke: ukumema ukuba udlale okuthile, hamba ukuhamba, ufunde incwadi, njll. Nokho, le nqubo isebenza kuphela esiteji sokuqala, okungukuthi, uma uqaphele ukuthi ingane ayithokozi futhi ihlelekile.
2. Isiphakamiso esihle kakhulu sendlela yokubhekana nabangabantwana bezingane ezineminyaka engama-3 ukuhlala nokuthula okungazwakali. Nika umntwana ukuthi aqonde ukuthi awuhlosi ukuhamba ngendlela yakhe futhi uvumele ukuziphatha okunjalo kuthonye izinqumo zakho noma ukuziphatha kwakho. Ngaphandle kokuphakamisa izwi lakho, chaza ingane ukuthi awuqondi lokho akufunayo lapho ekhala futhi eqa izinyawo zakhe. Uma ingane yakho ingakwazi ukuphuma kuma-hysterics, kungcono ukushiya ekamelweni okwesikhashana futhi ukhulume naye uma efika kuye.
3. Impendulo yombuzo wokuthi ungabhekana kanjani nezinhlamba zomntwana oneminyaka engama-3 zizovela ngokwazo uma uguqulela kakhulu ubuhlobo bakho nendodana yakho noma indodakazi yakho. Hlonipha imibono yabo, bakhuthaze ukuba benze imisebenzi elula (ukugqoka, ukugeza, njll) ukuthi bayakwazi ukukwenza ngokwabo. Nikeza ingane ngokuzikhethela: uhlobo luni lwe-t-shirt lokugqoka, ukuhamba lapho uhamba khona, njll. Ungaphoqeleli lutho ukukwenza, kodwa ucele usizo - bese ungacabangi abakhohlisi emntwaneni weminyaka emithathu uzoyeka.