Lapho belungiselela umkhosi womshado, abaningi bafunda ngokucophelela izimpawu zomshado namasiko. Ngifuna ukwenza konke ekilasini eliphezulu, futhi ngokuqinisekile angabizi izinkinga, ngikhohlwa ezinye izimpawu ezimbi. Sizocabangela amazwi ahlukahlukene kakhulu okuhlakanipha kwabantu okuvumela ukuhlela umkhosi ngokuhambisana namasiko.
Izibonakaliso mayelana nesixha somshado
Isimbali somshado siwuphawu lomndeni wenjabulo, futhi angeke unikezwe kunoma ubani. Umlobokazi kuphela, unina nomkhwenyana bangamthinta. Uma kungenjalo, kunengozi ukuthi injabulo emndenini izobe "ihoxiswe". Isimbali asikwazi ukukhululwa ezandleni kuze kufike idili ngokwalo, futhi uma kunesidingo sokushiya - singadluliselwa kuphela kumama wakhe.
Yingakho imibhangqwana eminingi iyala izimbali ezimbili - elihle futhi elihle, elizoba ngumlobokazi, nelesibili - kulula futhi lilula, elizophonswa phezu kwehlombe nezintombi zakhe. Ngendlela, lokhu kuyisiko esisha ngokuphelele, asihlobene nesikhathi esidala saseSlavic.
Kunezibonakaliso ezimbili eziphikisanayo mayelana nokuthi yini okufanele uyenze nezimbali emva komshado. Ezinye eside zigcinwa esimweni esomile, zikholelwa ukuthi ziletha injabulo, abanye bayiphonsa. Lesi sibonakaliso sithi isihlahla kufanele sishiswe, ukuze kungabikho muntu ongenayo injabulo yomndeni. Yikuphi kokukhethwa kukho okumele ukhethe kufinyelele kuwe.
Izimpawu zomshado zamantombazane angashadile
Kumantombazane angashadile, umshado wezintombi kuyindlela enhle yokusebenzisa izibonakaliso zomshado ezinhle ezizobasiza ukuba bathuthukise impilo yabo esikhathini esizayo esiseduze. Isibonelo:
- ehlezi etafuleni lomshado, engadonsa ngokungaqondakali umbhede wendwangu - lokhu kuqinisekisa ukuthi uzoshada phakathi neminyaka emibili elandelayo;
- isibonakaliso sithi - awukwazi ukuhlala "ekhoneni", lokhu kuvimbela umshado;
- kukhona futhi uphawu oluphambene nalokhu: uma intombazane ihlezi "ekhoneni", umkhwenyana uzoba naye "nge-angle" - okungukuthi, nendawo yakhe yokuhlala;
- isibonakaliso sithi - uma umfokazi ekuthumeni ngephutha (i-champagne!) - ngokushesha uzoshada;
- dansa nomuntu ohlala eceleni kwakho etafuleni - okubi: ngakho-ke ubeka eceleni umshado wakho; ukuze udansa udinga ukukhetha labo abahlezi kude nawe.
Yiqiniso, awukwazi ukukhohlwa into ebaluleke kakhulu: ukubamba izimbali zomlobokazi - emshadweni wokuqala. Yingakho emishadweni ethile kune-slaughterhouse yangempela yesikhwama esilinde isikhathi eside!
Izimpawu zomshado zofakazi
Kunezibonakaliso eziningi ezibonisa ukuthi ngubani ongakhetha njengabafakazi. Manje lokhu akusekho isidingo sokushada, kodwa imibhangqwana eminingi isamamathela esiko. Lapha kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuhlakanipha kwabantu:
- ofakazi kumele babe ngabashadile abangashadile abangashadile ukuze banikeze injabulo yabo emncintiswaneni (esontweni lesonto, kungcono nakwezinye izindlela);
- ofakazi akufanele abe ebuhlotsheni nomunye umuntu - lokhu kubuye kube kubi;
- akekho ofakazi okufanele ahlukaniswe - ngaphandle kwalokho labo abasanda kushada nabo ngeke baphile ndawonye isikhathi eside;
- Ubufakazi bomshado esontweni kumele bube ngukushada, ukukholwa nokukhetha - ukushada;
- ngoba ofakazi kukhona uphawu: kabili wabona emshadweni -
Umshado wesithathu kufanele ube ngowakho, ngaphandle kwalokho ungahlala wedwa ngokuphila; - Abashadayo bayamemeza "ngobuhlungu", futhi ofakazi - "amnandi" noma "omuncu"; ngakho-ke kungcono ukukhetha umbhangqwana ongashadile;
- ukuze lo mbhangqwana ujabule, ufakazi kumele abe okungenani amahora ambalwa kunomakoti.
Kukhona amazwi amaningi abantu - izibonakaliso mayelana nendlela yokukala ingubo yomshado, ngaluphi usuku nosuku lokudlala lo mkhosi, ngisho nangesimo sezulu esiwa ngalolu suku. Ungayithinti ngokujulile: uma uzimisele ukusebenza kubudlelwane nokunciphisa, injabulo yomndeni wakho kusuka kuwe ngeke ihambe noma yikuphi.